viking22 Posted August 25, 2007 Share Posted August 25, 2007 Since university I have been finding it very hard to meet girls. At university I used to meet girls through my course or through student societies. There were so many people my own age that it was impossible not to meet people. But now I've started my career I'm struggling to meet girls. I work in a small school so most of the other teachers are a lot older. I'm an introverted person and for me socialising takes a lot of effort and I do not like parties or bars or clubs. I tend to have a small number of close friends who are also introverted, so my social network is not very large at all. At university I used to meet girls through activities. I do try and keep up some activities such as yoga, gym, book clubs, debating but they tend to attract an older crowd. Im only 22 and prefer dating girls the same age or younger. I'm not really sure what to do. I'm a good looking guy and while I'm on the shy side I do have a certain amount of charm and intelligence. It is just the meeting girls part I find hard. Perhaps I need to learn how to pick up girls in bars like everyone else. But I somehow bypassed that stage and it is something I've never done in my life! Are there any other good ways to meet girls in the city in your early 20s? Link to post Share on other sites
Diplok Posted August 26, 2007 Share Posted August 26, 2007 www.meetup.com Great website. You sound a lot like me. I don't recommend for you to pickup girls at a bar. Maybe it's just me. I am christian so for me that is not an option. Not that I feel forced by my religion to not go to a bar. I have been to plenty of bars. I like a drink every once in a while but bars and clubs are just not my place to be. Try finding a church in your area. Most churches have yound adults meetings for singles and couples. It's a great way to meet people and also a great way for you to do some soul searching. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts