joeyku Posted August 30, 2007 Share Posted August 30, 2007 Okay, last april i met this AWESOME girl and we talked for about 2 weeks until i asked her out, she was 15 and i was 17... we began a beautiful relationship together and i lost my virginity to her (dont worry it was b4 i was 18 and oregon laws allow that)... and i helped her a lot about her past, since her ex bf beat her and raped her twice... and i helped her get over that... shes completely better from him now... then after 4 months we just started arguing about little things... then i (out of anger) suggested a break up, then she agreed... then i called 5 minutes later crying my guts out saying how sorry i was and asking for her back... all she said was "sorry, i cant"... and then i had an anxiety attack over the phone and she helped me calm down... after taht ive been non-stop crying and i want her back so badly.. my life is completely nothing nowadays... ive been cutting myself and stuff.... i told her i would change and asked for a second chance to make things right... but she said no... but on a lighter note, she still wears the bracelet i gave her (it reminds her of me she told me) and she still hangs the dreamcatcher above her bed (it stops her night terrors...) and she still listens to all my burned cds that i gave to her... and she STILL SAYS SHE LOVES ME.... which calms me down...... and whenever i ask if theres a chance about us getting back together in the future, at first she said "its possible" then it turned into "i dont know", but i asked if that was a no, and she said its not true... she really doesnt know.... but she says right now shes enjoying her single life with her friends..... but i cant believe shes gone!!! I WANT HER BACK SO BADLY I SWEAR I WILL MAKE HER HAPPY......... she even admitted taht i treated her very well..... PLEASE SOMEONE HELP.... my life is misery without her!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted August 30, 2007 Share Posted August 30, 2007 You are both are so young. You should give her some space rather than push her to come back to you. About cutting yourself - that is not a cool thing to do. I suggest that you get some counselling... that would help. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author joeyku Posted August 30, 2007 Author Share Posted August 30, 2007 im trying to give her space... but she called me one day and she made me tell her what is wrong with me... idk whats gonna happen... Link to post Share on other sites
Diplok Posted August 30, 2007 Share Posted August 30, 2007 How does someone make you do something you don't want to do? What you mean to say is she pressured you and you gave in to her requests. You both need counseling. A relationship is the last thing you need right now. If she was raped, you may think she is over it but without professional help, i really doubt it. Do both of you a favor and get counseling. Link to post Share on other sites
Author joeyku Posted August 30, 2007 Author Share Posted August 30, 2007 please someone give me a straight answer or something!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted August 30, 2007 Share Posted August 30, 2007 please someone give me a straight answer or something!!! You need to spend some time working on yourself. I can sense already that your self worth is too tied up in this girl. Your neediness is going to drive her away! It doesnt matter how well you treat her... your not a complete person yet, and that's not attractive! Link to post Share on other sites
Author joeyku Posted August 31, 2007 Author Share Posted August 31, 2007 i do need to work on myself... it hurts...but right now im working on someone else... so..... we'll see what happens Link to post Share on other sites
Toolate Posted August 31, 2007 Share Posted August 31, 2007 Just one thing, she is NOT over her BF beating her and raping her. Not by a longshot. Link to post Share on other sites
Author joeyku Posted August 31, 2007 Author Share Posted August 31, 2007 yea i know im rather close to telling her parents that dont know **** about her Link to post Share on other sites
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