bryanmax Posted August 31, 2007 Share Posted August 31, 2007 Hello, I've been going out with this girl for about 9 months (Long Distance Relationship) and I've known her for about 2 years....well recently she hasn't been giving me any attention like phone calls or text messages, like I've noticed she stopped like worrying about calling me and things like that...and i was like maybe she is losing interest in me...and then i confronted her about it and asked her, and of course she says no...Well yesterday was my birthday, August 30...and i turned 16...and she told me that night that she lost love for me...and its just not the same with me anymore..yes it hurt and i cried a bit but i didn't cry much because it wasn't a total shock for me....now like she says she wants a one week break from me...not like a total break up but like a break from each other for one week...and i said ok anything you want. So i can't help to think you know maybe she is cheating on me or there is somebody else? and i did ask her and of course she says no....but she says i act like i don't care but yet I'm there asking if she is cheating on me and what not, Can anyone help me please? I just can't help not to know what exactly to do and how to take this cause i want this girl back so bad...I wanna earn her love back and what not but i don't know what to do....please help, thank you for your time Link to post Share on other sites
Lauriebell82 Posted August 31, 2007 Share Posted August 31, 2007 Hi bryan! Sorry you are going through this. Anyway, how long distance are we talking here? How often do you see each other? Sometimes, in LDR if you aren't physically together a lot of the time the intimacy and closeness disappears (not always, but sometimes). Maybe she met someone, not neccessarily cheated yet, but is confused about her feelings. Give her the time she needs, and see what happens. Don't push her or pressure her, just tell her you love her and will respect her decision. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bryanmax Posted August 31, 2007 Author Share Posted August 31, 2007 I'm from Texas shes from Phoenix we have not met, i went over there but she was on a trip, damn...so that sucked but your probably right about the distance thing...if i was there i know things would be different, so you think i should give her time to think about her decision and what not? In the meantime i guess ill just wait it out? nothing really else i can do... Link to post Share on other sites
LittleWingedOne Posted September 3, 2007 Share Posted September 3, 2007 Hunny, you're 16. Most 16 yr olds arent ready for a long-term relationship, let alone a long distance one. Plus, you haven't even met yet! Not to sound harsh, but she may not take the relationship that seriously. My advice is to maybe just end it. I know that sounds terrible, but you're both young and before making a decision to be in a long distance relationship... you might want to meet first, then spend some quality time together. Link to post Share on other sites
Chuckles84 Posted September 16, 2007 Share Posted September 16, 2007 You're 16 man. High School is the time you're supposed to enjoy and have no worries about life! Get out there and find other girls to be around even if you don't date them. Let her have her space and don't wait for her. Trust me I know exactly where you're coming from and if in the end you two are meant to be it will happen. But you're not even legal adults so it all rides on your parents honestly. Link to post Share on other sites
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