cheesydippindoodle Posted September 1, 2007 Share Posted September 1, 2007 I starting dating my current partner very soon after his marriage broke down - although he is still living in the marital home for financial & other reasons, his ex found out about me and is claiming to still be sleeping with him (albeit in peculiar places or in the middle of the day when their teenaged daughter is up & about & when she rings to tell me its always an hour & a half ago that it happened) yet he swears blind he isn't. He's a rubbish liar but this statement can roll off his tongue like ice cream & he can look me in the eye whereas normally when he lies his eyes flicker giving him away. I do know he's trying to 'keep her sweet' in order to get what is his but something is just niggling away at me about it. Anybody got any ideas as to how i would find out who is telling the truth???? Link to post Share on other sites
Author cheesydippindoodle Posted September 1, 2007 Author Share Posted September 1, 2007 thats the best & only proper suggestion i had all nite!!! But then he'd probably dump me cos he hates drugs but i'll bear iit in mind - ta! Link to post Share on other sites
blowingthetrout Posted September 1, 2007 Share Posted September 1, 2007 thats the best & only proper suggestion i had all nite!!! But then he'd probably dump me cos he hates drugs but i'll bear iit in mind - ta! well then you'll still be on top with a new hobby, heck you may do it and realise that you are repulsed by him after all and he just isnt fabulous enough for your vogue ass *snap* Link to post Share on other sites
Fun2BMe Posted September 2, 2007 Share Posted September 2, 2007 That was a very irrisponsible response which I hope you didn't take seriously. Do not ever drug anyone. Why don't you ask he take a lie detector test? I think it's only fair for him to do so. So his wife calls you on the phone to tell you when and where they had sex? Link to post Share on other sites
Yosef Posted September 2, 2007 Share Posted September 2, 2007 That was a very irrisponsible response which I hope you didn't take seriously. Do not ever drug anyone. Why don't you ask he take a lie detector test? I think it's only fair for him to do so. So his wife calls you on the phone to tell you when and where they had sex? That seems rather unnecessary and not worth the hastle... That was a very dumb, drunk answer you just gave [to blowingthetrout] The wife could be using a tactic to mess with you, as she is jealous or mad at her ex still. It could be that she is trying to make her ex's life a living hell or he's trying very carefully not to get you involved in the conflict. You have to understand that he's in a very rough situation. He's godda be stressed like none other about all that's going on. Link to post Share on other sites
Fun2BMe Posted September 2, 2007 Share Posted September 2, 2007 That was a very dumb, drunk answer you just gave [to blowingthetrout] My answer only sounds dumb cuz his original one stating that the OP should drop ecstasy into the partner's drink to get him to talk was removed by the mods. FYI I think blowing whatever his name is is a BS poster. Link to post Share on other sites
birdie Posted September 3, 2007 Share Posted September 3, 2007 I starting dating my current partner very soon after his marriage broke down - although he is still living in the marital home for financial & other reasons, his ex found out about me and is claiming to still be sleeping with him (albeit in peculiar places or in the middle of the day when their teenaged daughter is up & about & when she rings to tell me its always an hour & a half ago that it happened) yet he swears blind he isn't. He's a rubbish liar but this statement can roll off his tongue like ice cream & he can look me in the eye whereas normally when he lies his eyes flicker giving him away. I do know he's trying to 'keep her sweet' in order to get what is his but something is just niggling away at me about it. Anybody got any ideas as to how i would find out who is telling the truth???? surely you don't need to be in a messy situation like this. ask your partner to move out, he must be able to afford even just a room in a house-share or something. how can he possibly have a new relationship when he is still hanging around his ex wife?? Link to post Share on other sites
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