really_lost_confused Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 Best friend and I have been more than just friends, not sex, I decided we should be a couple after messing around for 3 months. So I asked if she wanted to be in a relationship with me. I'm at school but I said I'd come every weekend to visit. I said this is and that...sorry I could go on forever believe me. But its 1.04 AM and I'm tired. But she said she has a bad feeling about it. All I want is a chance. I really do love her. I'm not just saying that. I've had a couple crushes before but I've never said I love a girl until now. We practically dated the past 3 months, b/c we saw each other almost everyday. But we just never called it that. My friends say it sounds like she has commitment problems. But she usually has a boyfriend, and they last awhile, not just the 1 month type relationships. I'm just confused why we don't become a couple if she isn't scared of commitment, or doesn't mind getting intimate with me, likes spending time together, and everything else. If ppl reply and want to know more, I can reply and give more info. I really dont want to move on, I want to just give it a try. Because that will make my life so much happier knowing that, even if it doesn't work, we gave it a try. Link to post Share on other sites
SilverFrostMoon Posted September 5, 2007 Share Posted September 5, 2007 It could be that she's afraid of losing you if a relationship doesn't work out. I know this scares me. Do you feel comfortable asking her why she has a bad feeling, or what the bad feeling may be? Link to post Share on other sites
Author really_lost_confused Posted September 7, 2007 Author Share Posted September 7, 2007 Sorry it took so long to reply. I accidently did it as a guest and it never showed up. We wouldn't break up over anything stupid to make us hate each other...if we ever did break up. All she says is that she has a bad feeling. I just want a real reason, as much as it may suck, I don't care though. So if she was worried about losing me if we did break up, she is losing me now if we don't go out. Because I want to be best friends, but I don't think I'm gonna talk to her anymore if she can't give us a chance b/c I will just make me feel more like crap. That's atleast what I'm thinking. With her I can't ever say no. Link to post Share on other sites
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