What do you think?

[spike7165]

Try and make this quick any opinions from ladies would be great please.

Situation:

First LDR 1 year, strong instant connection and love met in person and saw each other every month, moved 7000 miles to be with her, hasn't worked out due to the lack of work for me and therefore my resultant stress which affected her. Together 2.5 years.

I decided before I had to leave and go back to the UK to get some good work but she did push me to go.

Let me say that her reasons of my lack of career, self esteem etc are all valid, she is 100% right that I am not the same guy she met here and I need to work on myself, my happiness and stop needing so much.

She has said, she loves me so much, she has my heart, she will wait for me and wants me to sort myself out make some money then said she will come to the UK for me.

She can't come now because I have let her down so far and is not sure I can do it. So we are kind of on a break rather than broken up. So she loves me but feels let down.

Atmosphere while I am preparing to go is good, except when I get down. I am trying to avoid that even though it is hard because she wants a strong man, who has his own good life and isn't calling every 5 minutes because he has nothing else. She said she wants me to do it quickly so she can see me grow up quickly and improve myself and then help her with her situation.

I have put a lot of thought into whether she is just reassuring me before I go to make it easier then will ditch me after but I know this to not be the case. It would have been a lot easier with all the tears over the last couple of weeks for her just to move out to a friends house and not do all the talking about the future.

I know she loves me, wants me in the future etc. if I can change. She is just sceptical I can do it and doesnt want to be hurt anymore.

It is a bit of a difficult situation which the distance doesnt help at all and also different nationalities. It took a long time with difficlties in language and emotions to get to the truth.

So does anyone think we stand a chance? I love her with all my heart, she is the love of my life and knows that and has said if I CAN change, she will be an amazing woman for me. She is giving me so much hope but does anyone think it stands a chance?