Liquinn Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 Well, me and this girl know each other from a freind, me and the girl like each other, will meet up with her next week. What do I talk/say to her? We have alot in common, it's just looking at her, getting into a conversation. Well, it's hard for the first time, please help. We're both 15, and in the last year of school. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 5, 2007 Share Posted September 5, 2007 olright I dont understan how u can be 15 and in the last year of school maybe ur not america? but Im asuming your a guy and u want this girl to get interested in you romanticaly.... if thats the case you should just flirt with her.... since you probably dont understand how to flirt ill try to explain... just be silly and act casual about things and try to joke with her like if she is wearing alot of pink say something like I almost wore that same outfit, or are you panties pink too, playfuly insult her if you can and just have an open conversation, try to get touchy with her like if you say something funny that makes her laugh touch her arm with your hand or something. Oh yeah and try to get atleast one kiss Link to post Share on other sites
Author Liquinn Posted September 6, 2007 Author Share Posted September 6, 2007 olright I dont understan how u can be 15 and in the last year of school maybe ur not america? but Im asuming your a guy and u want this girl to get interested in you romanticaly.... if thats the case you should just flirt with her.... since you probably dont understand how to flirt ill try to explain... just be silly and act casual about things and try to joke with her like if she is wearing alot of pink say something like I almost wore that same outfit, or are you panties pink too, playfuly insult her if you can and just have an open conversation, try to get touchy with her like if you say something funny that makes her laugh touch her arm with your hand or something. Oh yeah and try to get atleast one kiss Nah, in the UK. Well, yeah. I'll meet her tonight, or Monday night, when she comes on MSN ;x Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 6, 2007 Share Posted September 6, 2007 try to meet her in person dont do the on line thing more then a few mins Link to post Share on other sites
code five Posted September 6, 2007 Share Posted September 6, 2007 Dude, just be yourself. Don't worry about anything. Just take it slow and easy and try to have a good time (and I don't mean any funny stuff)... LOL Just be yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Liquinn Posted September 7, 2007 Author Share Posted September 7, 2007 try to meet her in person dont do the on line thing more then a few mins Yeah, I'm meeting her. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 8, 2007 Share Posted September 8, 2007 Remember this be yourself (as in not some fake guy just trying to agree and say everything you think shes going to like, be confident in ur own shoes and with ur style) be funny if thats part of being yourself it will help. Try to get touchy with her while your flirting you know like touch her arm or leg or something.... and most importantly go for that all important first kiss, the sooner you get this the better, remember its not the end of the world if she turns her head or what ever when you try to kiss her, just play it off like you didnt care cause you shouldn't.... thats all i got 4 now good luck Link to post Share on other sites
Author Liquinn Posted September 9, 2007 Author Share Posted September 9, 2007 Remember this be yourself (as in not some fake guy just trying to agree and say everything you think shes going to like, be confident in ur own shoes and with ur style) be funny if thats part of being yourself it will help. Try to get touchy with her while your flirting you know like touch her arm or leg or something.... and most importantly go for that all important first kiss, the sooner you get this the better, remember its not the end of the world if she turns her head or what ever when you try to kiss her, just play it off like you didnt care cause you shouldn't.... thats all i got 4 now good luck Yeah, makes sense. xD Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted September 9, 2007 Share Posted September 9, 2007 Don't be too 'goofy' if this is not 'natural' for you... you would look 'fake'... just be yourself. Don't talk about her panties on the first date.. I say: Compliment her a lot... girls (women) love compliments... NEVER ever forget that. (her clothes, her hair, her smile, her eyes, etc... but nothing sexual LOL) Try to find a topic she likes to talk about or just plain ask her what she likes to do in her spare time...then talk about that... tell her just a little bit about you, unless she asks, don't monopolize the conversation the whole evening about YOU. First time, it's all about HER... if you really want this to work... Good luck... keep us informed. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Liquinn Posted September 9, 2007 Author Share Posted September 9, 2007 Don't be too 'goofy' if this is not 'natural' for you... you would look 'fake'... just be yourself. Don't talk about her panties on the first date.. I say: Compliment her a lot... girls (women) love compliments... NEVER ever forget that. (her clothes, her hair, her smile, her eyes, etc... but nothing sexual LOL) Try to find a topic she likes to talk about or just plain ask her what she likes to do in her spare time...then talk about that... tell her just a little bit about you, unless she asks, don't monopolize the conversation the whole evening about YOU. First time, it's all about HER... if you really want this to work... Good luck... keep us informed. Well, thanks xD Hopefully it goes well, I'm waiting her to get back to me, I think it'll be next thursday/friday when we meet. I'll compliment her, hopefully this like gets somewhere, maybe I'll invite her over to sleep over when she wants if the first meet goes fine. Thanks for all the help so far Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 9, 2007 Share Posted September 9, 2007 Well, thanks xD Hopefully it goes well, I'm waiting her to get back to me, I think it'll be next thursday/friday when we meet. I'll compliment her, hopefully this like gets somewhere, maybe I'll invite her over to sleep over when she wants if the first meet goes fine. Thanks for all the help so far Be careful with the compliments you dont say it right it will come out cheezy, definetly dont compliment her on any body part it will only come off sexual or cheezy. Your best compliment will be giving her the feeling shes out with a confident genuine person but if you really feel you must give her a compliment do it about a neclace shes wearing or something like that and then stop with the compliments ull look needy. Look it sounds like you havnt met this girl in person so untill you do dont do to much talking on line and just stay busy with the other stuff in your life... and stop putting all your eggs into the one basket and try to meet some other girls in person. Dont invite this girl to sleep over, I mean sure if things are going good and you want to show her something at your place or she wants to show you something at hers and one thing leads to another more power to you, but if you invite a girl to sleep over just cause things were going good the first time you met her then ur most likely cooked... use the ive got a great (fill in blank) back at my place id love to show you, then try to heat things up and see where it goes Link to post Share on other sites
Author Liquinn Posted September 9, 2007 Author Share Posted September 9, 2007 Be careful with the compliments you dont say it right it will come out cheezy, definetly dont compliment her on any body part it will only come off sexual or cheezy. Your best compliment will be giving her the feeling shes out with a confident genuine person but if you really feel you must give her a compliment do it about a neclace shes wearing or something like that and then stop with the compliments ull look needy. Look it sounds like you havnt met this girl in person so untill you do dont do to much talking on line and just stay busy with the other stuff in your life... and stop putting all your eggs into the one basket and try to meet some other girls in person. Dont invite this girl to sleep over, I mean sure if things are going good and you want to show her something at your place or she wants to show you something at hers and one thing leads to another more power to you, but if you invite a girl to sleep over just cause things were going good the first time you met her then ur most likely cooked... use the ive got a great (fill in blank) back at my place id love to show you, then try to heat things up and see where it goes Yeah, true I'll invite her over for tea or something if it goes well, or just invite her over as a friend which is what I want. Then maybe take her out for a meal or smth. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 9, 2007 Share Posted September 9, 2007 no no If im understanding u corectly ur going to invite her over if things go well on the internet? only invite her your home for tea or what ever if things go well in person. Before you meet her you should really do something youd both would be into loutside eachothers homes like bowling, or movie, or some type of art exhibit (just stop and stare at the painting for a few secs and coment on the brush strokes) I mean some entertaining activity what ever it is out side your house, and definetly make her pay her way if this is just you to hanging out, if things go well then you invite her over... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Liquinn Posted September 10, 2007 Author Share Posted September 10, 2007 Yeah, if it goes well, me and her go somewhere. Link to post Share on other sites
Lei Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 hey dude! don't be too close to that girl... you may get hurt someday if she went away and just leave you...let the girl tell you first that she likes you and love you, before you say "yes, i do also love you"... because she may just like you as her friend, no more than that... but get along with her...more conversation will be fine... =D Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 he doesnt even know the girl she thinks nothing of him at this point Link to post Share on other sites
Author Liquinn Posted September 11, 2007 Author Share Posted September 11, 2007 he doesnt even know the girl she thinks nothing of him at this point We've talked on MSN, just going to meet her xD Link to post Share on other sites
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