poemsandpeaches Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 was talking with this guy for 3 weeks... no dates just phone buddies getting VERY close...He confessed that he was in klove with me and I was HIS woman...I was spoken for, etc one Sunday morning he drives over to my place bangs on the door, and calls me 11 times..begging to eat my p_$$y.... Im still sleep mind you..I wake up to this ruckus.....embarassed because Im in aprestigous suburbs and I dont want my neighbors hearing this mess and having him emabarassing me..... I didn't open the door ...and ever since that incident he stopped calling me and told me that he was done with me...because I didn't let him in... I miss him dearly..he's a decent guy but Im no rumble in the hay stack... I told him that I wanted him to court me properly... I broke down and called him 5 days straight every morning at work telling him how I missed him and wanted to be with him.I think he lost respect for me at this point because he knew that I was falling for him and the chase was OVER..I hate myself for being weak for him....but at the same time I didn't want him to treat me like a piece of a$$ ya know what I mean??? Im old fashioned..I dont f_ck on the first date, although I wanted to with him....but I wanted something real with him...and he lead me to believe that we were on the same page..Today is his birthday and I didn't call him on purpose because he treated me like ****.... WHAT ARE YOU GUYS'S OPINIONS... Link to post Share on other sites
Ormolu611 Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 was talking with this guy for 3 weeks... no dates just phone buddies getting VERY close...He confessed that he was in klove with me and I was HIS woman...I was spoken for, etc one Sunday morning he drives over to my place bangs on the door, and calls me 11 times..begging to eat my p_$$y.... Im still sleep mind you..I wake up to this ruckus.....embarassed because Im in aprestigous suburbs and I dont want my neighbors hearing this mess and having him emabarassing me..... I didn't open the door ...and ever since that incident he stopped calling me and told me that he was done with me...because I didn't let him in... I miss him dearly..he's a decent guy but Im no rumble in the hay stack... I told him that I wanted him to court me properly... I broke down and called him 5 days straight every morning at work telling him how I missed him and wanted to be with him.I think he lost respect for me at this point because he knew that I was falling for him and the chase was OVER..I hate myself for being weak for him....but at the same time I didn't want him to treat me like a piece of a$$ ya know what I mean??? Im old fashioned..I dont f_ck on the first date, although I wanted to with him....but I wanted something real with him...and he lead me to believe that we were on the same page..Today is his birthday and I didn't call him on purpose because he treated me like ****.... WHAT ARE YOU GUYS'S OPINIONS... He lost repect for you??!!!?!?!?!?! It sounds as if he never respected you in the first place, carrying on he way he did. You did nothing wrong! Forget this fool . . . . . you can do much, much better. Link to post Share on other sites
Author poemsandpeaches Posted September 4, 2007 Author Share Posted September 4, 2007 thanks for the words of encouragement.... i hate that im attracted to this jerk... he's emotionally unavailable , has a 5year old daughter..and says that taking care of his daughter is his world..yet he approached ME...and I didn't give him the time of day, but he grew on me, so to speak... I hate attachment...that crap sucks.. Im trying my best to get over him... Link to post Share on other sites
FleshNBones Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 I get the impression that you are one of those average looking women who will stop at nothing to pair up with a pretty boy. This guy is obviously a piece of trash, and he never respected you. Do you think he would let some guy treat his daughter in the same way he treated you? What dating/relationship books have you read? Videos? I am one of those average looking guys, and I usually get a negative response from average looking women. How does the relationship pecking order work? Average girl caters to every whim of the pretty boy. Average girl expects average boy to cater to her every whim. Fortunately, I am noncompliant in this system. That's probably why I'm still single. Link to post Share on other sites
Author poemsandpeaches Posted September 4, 2007 Author Share Posted September 4, 2007 Thanks FLESHNBONE.. I appreciate your brutal honesty...but dont feeled compelled to tell you how hot I am..rather just put myself out there and tell everyone what a fool I've been for falling for a jerk... *shakes head* Wake The f_uck up... P&P Link to post Share on other sites
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