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Here are teh details.

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t128730/

 

What bothers me about this, is that I was moving on when eh called. Well, that and he supposedly started seeing her a week after we broke up. It was only a 2 month relationship, and I didn't feel like we really connected anymore in the end so it was disappointing. However, now that he's introduced jealousy into the picture, I'm thinking about him all of the time and I hate it. I know that was his intention and it's ticking me off that he's so immature.

 

I know that I made my last ex jealous with another guy, however he screwed up by lying and I never slept with him with the other guy. This guy screwed up this relationship but he's still punishing me. I suspect the current ex may have already slept with her because although he kept saying "it's not like that," he wouldn't deny that he did.

 

It's frustrating that the Mcdonald approach to "stop your divorce" by dating/sleeping with others actually works on rational, logical people who know better.

 

WHat I want to know most of all, is whether he called for an ego boost or to see if he could use her to reconcile? He kept mentioning wanting to see me and wanting to be "friends." Even after I told him off.

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Hey Daph,

 

Sounds like this guy gets off on this crap.

sheesh why do ladies get sucked in by crap like this (not saying you are)? Its just I here about it alot. Like my ex for instance,shes hanging out with this douche bag that is not treating her well. Us (normal??) guys are just not interesting enough I guess.

 

You do not need the drama or the std's;). Find a yourself someone who will not take you for granted.

 

Oh, that farm for looney guys? Yeah, there is a female section on the other half:D.

 

You know what you need to do.

 

One more thing,I really want to thank you for the help you gave me when I was at my lowest. I really appreciate it.

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hi Fred,

 

Actually, if I had known this was who he was to begin with I wouldn't have gone near him. It's unfortunate that I didn't take things a lot slower so I would have known who he was before I got a little attached. I won't make that mistake again. But honestly, he was impatient because I guess he didn't want me to know him.

 

Personally, I"m just looking for a sweet, boring guy to settle down with. Ok, not completely boring but stable and drama free.

 

I know you're right. My friends would KILL me if I took him back. He's immature and needs to learn about life and I don't want to be the one to teach him.

 

To recap, this is what I"m missing out on:

 

a) sleeps around. can't be by himself

b) he's jobless

c) he makes little effort in a relationship other than to attain a girl

d) manipulative

e) selfish

f) delusional

g) gamey

h) highly immature

i) user

 

The pros is a short list. I can't believe that making me jealous actually worked a little. I'm not going to call him, I just don't know what I'll do if and when he calls me next.

 

Btw, how old is your ex? He is probably just temporary entertainment. If he's a bad egg, it'll make her appreciate you more. What I wouldn't give for a good one.

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