BKRPM Posted September 8, 2007 Share Posted September 8, 2007 I'm a recovering OM trying to do some healthy dating. I have had a lot of unsuccessful dates all summer, but finally came across one on eHarmony.com that I really like. She's got me confused, and I welcome advice. I'll provide some info: -We're both in our 30s. Both have not been married before. -First date (lunch) last Friday. Went extremely well. A lot of talking on both sides. -I immediately asked her for date #2, which she accepted right away. -About 4 e-mails back and forth and two phone calls between the two dates. -Date #2 last night (Thurs). Dinner and then drinks at a wine bar. -She was getting over a sinus infection this week. I did ask her if she still wanted to go, or reschedule, but she agreed to go for Thursday's date. -Date #2 lasted about 2 1/2 hours...ended at 8:30PM. -She was kind of quiet, at least more than on date #1. -I asked her if she had any plans for the weekend. "Not much." -We walked to her car after date #2, and she seemed in quite a hurry. -No hug/kiss or anything. I asked her, as she drove me to my car, "I had a great time...I want to see you again." She didn't answer, but just smiled, grabbed my hand really tightly, and said "Have a good night!" -I e-mailed her last night, telling her what a good time I had, and mentioned that I hope that I didn't babble too much, but I only do that around pretty girls. -Her e-mail response this morning said "Happy Friday! I had a really nice time, too! No, you weren't babbling. : ) Advice?? In most cases I get signs that give me SOME direction.... Link to post Share on other sites
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