Marvin Posted January 5, 2000 Share Posted January 5, 2000 I'm a 22-year old sbm from danville, Ill. who is haunted by women in my past. I have been screwed by women all of my life, I still think about what's happened in my past and I still don't know what they want or anything. I feel that when women see me, they see friend and that's worse than the other F word (if you know what I mean) I feel that I'm a nice guy with some good qualities and I would like a stable relationship for once in my life. I would like to hear any advice or anything from women so I can get a good grasp on things so I can get out of the past. Link to post Share on other sites
Deb Posted January 5, 2000 Share Posted January 5, 2000 What about the women from your past bothers you? I think that there is a huge difference between friends and lovers. I mean that there has to be some animal instinct that kicks in if you are going to go beyond friendship and if the chemistry isn't right then maybe you are better off being friends, and waiting until you find someone who has that chemistry. I think that you will know the difference when you meet the right person. Try doing something different instead of the same patterns. You meet a more diverse group of people if you alter your activities. Join some kind of activity without taking your friends with you. Then, the new group knows nothing about you and you can start with a clean slate. I'm a 22-year old sbm from danville, Ill. who is haunted by women in my past. I have been screwed by women all of my life, I still think about what's happened in my past and I still don't know what they want or anything. I feel that when women see me, they see friend and that's worse than the other F word (if you know what I mean) I feel that I'm a nice guy with some good qualities and I would like a stable relationship for once in my life. I would like to hear any advice or anything from women so I can get a good grasp on things so I can get out of the past. Link to post Share on other sites
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