heartoutside Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 I don't know WHAT TO DO!?!?! UGH Well yesterday I got another random text from my ex, "I"m reading my Abnormal Psych book and Jewish men have a higher rate of depressin. Interesting huh?" I didn't reply until later that night, about 6 hours later. I said, "well it's a good thing i only play a jew on tv." I got an instant reply, of "that's funny!LOL." An hour or so later, I write asking how she likes her classes? again, she instantly replies with they are hard and she might have to drop one. I don't reply at all. Maybe she'll get the idea that I'm not there anymore to support her like I was when we were dating. Then theres facebook. I know, I'm kicking myself for checking, I don't know why I did. But I go on her page and see that she's post her party pics from labor day and there's a picture of her and this "GUY." I also see that he's posted a picture of them at some engagement party they went to the other night. But she looks really uncomfortable, and has her hands in her pockets. What should I do? Am I getting toyed with? All these random texts. I feel like after seeing those pictures that I need to just call her up and tell her that she's either in or out? Is that a bad idea? I mean, it seems like she doesn't want to let go, or maybe she just wants me as a friend. Even though I told her we could never be friends. She's still listed as single on both myspace and facebook (I caved and checked myspace after faceboook, dumb dumb) and still has her animated pet named after me on her page. I don't know what to do...... Link to post Share on other sites
Author heartoutside Posted September 10, 2007 Author Share Posted September 10, 2007 anyone? I could really use some advice or some support here. I just got back from the gym, and I can't figure out what I should do. Should I call her out on this, tell her that I can't be toyed with. She knows how I feel, or at least she did. I told her a month ago that I still feel the same about her, that I would do nothing to push her away. Should I ask her out or just flat out talk to her about this face to face?!? Man.... I was also thinking that this other guy is getting toyed with too (not that I care), she still considers herself single, she still talks to me (her ex). I mean if she took this guy seriously she wouldn't be talking to me at all, esp while she's sitting at home doing nothing, she would call him not texting me. Link to post Share on other sites
angie16 Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 that she is dating the new guy, and she may be unsure of him, or maybe its fine, but because its a new relationship clearly she is having memories of you and her togehter. you need to talk to her, admit you saw the pics on facebook and ASK HER if she is contacting you to try and be friends, or if she wants to get back together. ab Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 she's into drama and playing the both of you. as long as you don't give her attention she'll continue to act like a teenager and seek it out more. Just go NC with her and start making yourself happy. Too many women out there to goto this length of stress. Let her be someone else's problem. Link to post Share on other sites
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