Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Share Posted September 10, 2007 You said in your OP that she backed off from being romantic with you. That sounds like she expressed doubts and wanted to figure out what was right for her, and well, I guess you took that ball and ran with it, deciding that it meant that she's a bitch. I don't think she's the emotional mess here, PP, and I'm really not saying that to be mean. But I think it would be really helpful for you to recognize your anger and face it - not as coming from external sources, but as having an internal source that you choose not to master, because you consider it righteous. It isn't, though. It's just anger. You are damn right it is anger. I have a right to be angry, just as she has her right to be confused. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 As a side note, did you notice that most of your threads seem to blow up in your face, pp? Do you wonder why? Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 I have calmed down now about my wife because I am honest about gender issues with her and she agrees with me 99% of the time but I hope to never lose the spine I have grown. I never want to be like those men who think that the way to a woman's heart is handing your balls over and apologizing for being a man. I am wrong to take this out on my wife because one of the few rare good women out there and she accepts me for who I am. I just think peace pipe is frustrated and he is venting here. Men are allowed to vent as well and they shouldn't be caled misogynists just for expressing their feelings. Link to post Share on other sites
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Share Posted September 10, 2007 As a side note, did you notice that most of your threads seem to blow up in your face, pp? Do you wonder why? Yes, because most people are women or feminists. I don't really know why I bother here.... I can post something here and people start attacking me. When I explain it to my best friend or my brother, they understand completely. I can go speak to any number of friends I have and they would all agree that I deserve a good woman. I don't get everyone's thing about anger. Anger is a necessary emotion. I will not stand to be used. Don't get me wrong, I don't get physical but I will sure let someone have it verbally. What else do you suggest I do? Keep it all bottled up and take it out on someone who is not the cause? Think.... Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 Yes, because most people are women or feminists. I don't really know why I bother here.... I can post something here and people start attacking me. When I explain it to my best friend or my brother, they understand completely. I can go speak to any number of friends I have and they would all agree that I deserve a good woman. I don't get everyone's thing about anger. Anger is a necessary emotion. I will not stand to be used. Don't get me wrong, I don't get physical but I will sure let someone have it verbally. What else do you suggest I do? Keep it all bottled up and take it out on someone who is not the cause? Think.... If you look in this thread, there are a number of men not siding with you, so it's not gender-based. When you aggressively attack other posters for disagreeing with you, this type of thing will happen. If you notice, most posters don't start out being aggressive with you. While I agree that LS is a great place to vent, you can't always run around blaming the rest of the world for your woes. As I've expressed on a number of other threads, each person with the same cycling problems in life, recreate their own unhealthy cycles. You are the only commonality. What are the root causes of so much anger, applied to everyone else, including and especially your exes? Link to post Share on other sites
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Share Posted September 10, 2007 :lmao: This is so funny...... Honey they don't have their heads up their asses.... they see you clearly for what you are. If you are anything - remotely like what you are posting here - yes you will stay single by choice- or not. Based on the behavior of many women, I am much better off without. All i did was stand up for myself to prevent myself from being used. Some folks would see it as dignity - apparently not here on LS! Link to post Share on other sites
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Share Posted September 10, 2007 What are the root causes of so much anger, applied to everyone else, including and especially your exes? Very, very few things elicit such anger from me. It is mainly women that make me angry. Their immaturity and lack of respect for men usually trigger it. I see women as having it pretty damn easy in our society, especially when it comes to relationships. The man is the one who has to do all of the persuing and all the work. A woman can just go along for the free ride, and may do. Many woman have also be spoiled and pampered by their fathers to the point it makes then expect the same in adult life, but guess what? You have to earn it!! Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 Based on the behavior of many women, I am much better off without. All i did was stand up for myself to prevent myself from being used. Some folks would see it as dignity - apparently not here on LS! Dear, If you had one shred of dignity or class you would not have taken the road you did. A dignified person will never resort to name calling nor have temper tantrums like a 5 year old child. A dignified person would not be telling other to F off, C, or anything like that. Not her and not the posters here. You lack dignity and lack self respect. So much so that this woman dumping you has turned your world upside down for the moment. You don't have a backbone. If you did you simply would not care. But do ..............Continue with your fit of child like rage and stomp around. BTW- 5 women recently have left you, used you, hurt you, you you you you ....... must be you..... but ignore that and continue on with your happy little life. I am finding it amusing. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 Okay, we have already established that as a "man" I am not allowed to have emotions. So I can see why you think I am not allowed to be angry. What I said to her was not the most professional thing in the world, but my only regret is that I did not say it to her face!! Next time I pass her by, I may just give her the finger!! F her!! I don't owe her respect or anything! No one ever said you weren't allowed to have any emotions, just like no one said that all women were little angels. But did you think perhaps you were allowed to express emotions other then anger? How about sadness that she decided to end things? That's a normal reaction to have. A little bit of insecurity and questionning is also a normal reaction to have after getting dumped. I think you need too much control and are afraid of your own emotions. That's why you're blaming women. I'll ask again... Were your parents very strict? Were allowed to be sad? Was your father present? Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 Very, very few things elicit such anger from me. It is mainly women that make me angry. Their immaturity and lack of respect for men usually trigger it. I see women as having it pretty damn easy in our society, especially when it comes to relationships. The man is the one who has to do all of the persuing and all the work. A woman can just go along for the free ride, and may do. Many woman have also be spoiled and pampered by their fathers to the point it makes then expect the same in adult life, but guess what? You have to earn it!! oh goodness do we suffer from Vagina Envy or what? You need therapy. Link to post Share on other sites
annabelle75 Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 This girl hurt your ego and now you have come here to spew venom and throw a tantrum. Calling women foul names is not showing any sort of respect or class. If you could even just apologize or admit wrong doing for that one thing I would be willing to cut you some slack. But you won't, therefore I have lost all respect for you. You were right about respect having to be earned .... you haven't earned it. And here's a little quote I like to live by: DYSFUNCTION: The only consistent feature of all your dissatifying relationships is you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Share Posted September 10, 2007 If you look in this thread, there are a number of men not siding with you, so it's not gender-based. When you aggressively attack other posters for disagreeing with you, this type of thing will happen. If you notice, most posters don't start out being aggressive with you. While I agree that LS is a great place to vent, you can't always run around blaming the rest of the world for your woes. As I've expressed on a number of other threads, each person with the same cycling problems in life, recreate their own unhealthy cycles. You are the only commonality. What are the root causes of so much anger, applied to everyone else, including and especially your exes? I already responded to this post, but after more thought it is actually quite simple. The only time I get this kind of anger is when I feel like I am being taken advantage of. It could be a woman, business owner, law enforcement, etc.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Share Posted September 10, 2007 This girl hurt your ego and now you have come here to spew venom and throw a tantrum. Calling women foul names is not showing any sort of respect or class. If you could even just apologize or admit wrong doing for that one thing I would be willing to cut you some slack. But you won't, therefore I have lost all respect for you. You were right about respect having to be earned .... you haven't earned it. And here's a little quote I like to live by: DYSFUNCTION: The only consistent feature of all your dissatifying relationships is you. I hope I see her tonight so I can belittle her some more. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 I already responded to this post, but after more thought it is actually quite simple. The only time I get this kind of anger is when I feel like I am being taken advantage of. It could be a woman, business owner, law enforcement, etc.... Control issue Link to post Share on other sites
annabelle75 Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 I hope I see her tonight so I can belittle her some more. You sound like a typical abuser. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 Peace, you are aware that violence doesn't have to be physical in order to be considered violence right? You have heard of verbal abuse right? This woman could put a restraining on you for that last phone call. This she can do because no human, man or woman, should walk around afraid of being belittled. This is a basic rule of civil society. You really need to learn to calm down. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 Very, very few things elicit such anger from me. It is mainly women that make me angry. Their immaturity and lack of respect for men usually trigger it. I see women as having it pretty damn easy in our society, especially when it comes to relationships. The man is the one who has to do all of the persuing and all the work. A woman can just go along for the free ride, and may do. Many woman have also be spoiled and pampered by their fathers to the point it makes then expect the same in adult life, but guess what? You have to earn it!! I've seen more than enough men go for the free ride in life. Does that make all men evil. Nope. I already responded to this post, but after more thought it is actually quite simple. The only time I get this kind of anger is when I feel like I am being taken advantage of. It could be a woman, business owner, law enforcement, etc.... Dating someone for a few weeks, doesn't mean that they have to provide you some form of emotional return which lasts forever. She was upfront and honest with you, instead of leading you on and then flaking out. I have much respect for her. It's not easy to provide someone with closure. Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 DYSFUNCTION: The only consistent feature of all your dissatifying relationships is you. I thought that sounded familiar. http://despair.com/dysfunction.html Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 Why do you feel the need to constantly kiss women's asses? Do you think it will make you get laid more or what? Women hate you too just like any other man. Wog, You want to know the truth! Your upset because women dont seem to conform to your expectations. Understand this! Most Women want a leader! YOU are supposed to be that leader... what kind of traits are you showing???? From what I see I wouldnt trust you to run my Can-Opener... let alone put you in charge of a family! Stop bieng dense. The Marriage is your responsibility... SO step up and take charge! Thats what a man does! Are you gonna follow someone that hates your sorry butt?? I wouldnt! Why whould she! Link to post Share on other sites
Lishy Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 He is the reason they invented abortions! he is vile and nasty and I am so glad that poor girl got away in time! If he is like this after 3 weeks imagine how he would be after 3 months? Phew lucky her! Link to post Share on other sites
jcster Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 I see women as having it pretty damn easy in our society, especially when it comes to relationships. The man is the one who has to do all of the persuing and all the work. A woman can just go along for the free ride, and may do. Many woman have also be spoiled and pampered by their fathers to the point it makes then expect the same in adult life, but guess what? You have to earn it!! Oh, good LORD! You didn't just say that...tell me you didn't just say that! This woman dumped you for a reason. That reason is your self-righteous, vindictive, greedy, bitter attitude. I feel like I need to go wash my eyes after reading this. I wish every woman in the world could read your posts so that they could save themselves the pain of knowing you. You are the reason I don't date. Link to post Share on other sites
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Share Posted September 10, 2007 He is the reason they invented abortions! he is vile and nasty and I am so glad that poor girl got away in time! If he is like this after 3 weeks imagine how he would be after 3 months? Phew lucky her! Yep this woman is so great.... leading me on while I buy her dinner, drinks, etc. POOR GIRL!!! You need to get a grip Link to post Share on other sites
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Share Posted September 10, 2007 He is the reason they invented abortions! he is vile and nasty and I am so glad that poor girl got away in time! If he is like this after 3 weeks imagine how he would be after 3 months? Phew lucky her! Speaking of abortions, she had an abortion already!!! Link to post Share on other sites
jcster Posted September 10, 2007 Share Posted September 10, 2007 Understand this! Most Women want a leader! YOU are supposed to be that leader... HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!! Oh God! HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!! Can't breathe! whew! No really...thanks for the laugh.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Share Posted September 10, 2007 Peace, you are aware that violence doesn't have to be physical in order to be considered violence right? You have heard of verbal abuse right? This woman could put a restraining on you for that last phone call. This she can do because no human, man or woman, should walk around afraid of being belittled. This is a basic rule of civil society. You really need to learn to calm down. No, I will stand up for myself. Until they take away freedom of speech I have every right to voice my opinion! I could care less if she got a restraining order - what part of F her I hope she dies don't you get? Link to post Share on other sites
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