Lizzie60 Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 Good for me... This young guy just knocked at my door. He said he missed me too much, he had to stop for a few minutes. We talked a little bit about what happened. He said he wants to calm down eventually and stop cheating on his gf...They've been living together one year, together for 6. I knew I would see him again...but I have to admit that I felt a little twitch when she caught him and he called me to say it was over, that we wouldn't see each other again. She threw a fit, broke his cell... got my address, drove by a few times. She watches him like a hawk. But I am OK.. He just left... we kissed and he said he would be back.. he can't stay away, he said he misses me too much... I knew it! Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 As long as you are validated, I guess that is all that matters. Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 Does this girl know personal stuff about you - what you look like, your age, etc? I can't help but to wonder how she took the age difference thing, if she even knew about it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Share Posted September 12, 2007 Does this girl know personal stuff about you - what you look like, your age, etc? I can't help but to wonder how she took the age difference thing, if she even knew about it. I don't know how much she knows.. we didn't talk about it that much... he just told me that she found out my address, drove by a few times, probably wanted to see me... I know he told her that he came to see me for my kitchen renovation (counter)... but she's not stupid... she checked his cell phone history...and found out he was calling me past eleven at night... he told her we never had sex... He told her my age (he knew my real age). She has calmed down apparently...but he's wise... just before he stopped, he called her to make sure she was home. I know he loves her, he told me the last time he was here. He also wants kids. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Share Posted September 12, 2007 Does this girl know personal stuff about you - what you look like, your age, etc? I can't help but to wonder how she took the age difference thing, if she even knew about it. That she called me the next day she found out.. .I know it's her, she simply said she had the wrong number. But I guess she's not sure we had sex, because from what I heard (from the fit she threw him) she would certainly knock at my door. She somehow believes we didn't have sex... but she knows he called me many times after 11 pm... and even later... I find that most cheaters can calm their gf or W with a very simple lie... because they (W and gf) just want to believe that their SO couldn't have been cheating. Link to post Share on other sites
greengoddess Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 Why did you lie to her? Why not be honest before she marries this guy? You don't really care about him. He's just another conquest. Have some humanity and be honest if she asks so she doesn't screw up her life and her future children. Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 As long as you are validated, I guess that is all that matters. ditto..... Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 ditto..... What are you trying to say UP? Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 What are you trying to say UP? Are you mocking me for mocking myself. I simply mean that is is all a validation. Nothing more nor less. Helium filled shallow waters. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 Helium filled shallow waters. For some reason now I can't stop laughing!! Reminds of a story..But, that's for another thread in the watercooler...lol Lizzie, I hope if he ever calls you again you tell him goodbye and not to contact you ever again. Link to post Share on other sites
PoshPrincess Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 I find that most cheaters can calm their gf or W with a very simple lie... because they (W and gf) just want to believe that their SO couldn't have been cheating. Jeez, ain't that the truth?! My exMM did exactly the same. He made out we were just having a 'friendship'. Oh, and also told his W that I was a 'fat minger' (his words). I suppose this reassured her that he would have a physical R with me if his life depended on it. He still carried on seeing me though. Link to post Share on other sites
lovelorcet Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 Don't you ever worry that you are going to mess with the wrong woman someday and she is going to show up at your door? Burn your house down... or whatever... Link to post Share on other sites
PoshPrincess Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 Don't you ever worry that you are going to mess with the wrong woman someday and she is going to show up at your door? Burn your house down... or whatever... Exactly! It's like these MM/MW who never learn and cheat time and time again. One day they will get themselves involved with the 'psycho-b*tch from hell' and then maybe they will think twice! Link to post Share on other sites
lovelorcet Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 Seriously, I meant that more in terms of Lizzie... You could have a small army of jaded wives out there and what if one stumbles along to this site and reads your views on this whole matter. It could send them through the roof. You are pretty easy to locate with the information here on this site and I assume there is a chance that someone looking on the net could find you here. Don't get me wrong... I am not making any accusations or anything I am really just wondering how you view this risk? Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 You are pretty easy to locate with the information here on this site and I assume there is a chance that someone looking on the net could find you here. I don't think Lizzie is her real name .. The internet is a big place Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 As long as you are validated, I guess that is all that matters. ditto2! You rock unders! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Share Posted September 12, 2007 Why did you lie to her? Why not be honest before she marries this guy? You don't really care about him. He's just another conquest. Have some humanity and be honest if she asks so she doesn't screw up her life and her future children. Plus this is not my business... he has cheated on her before and she keeps taking him back... she would take him back again... he told me she was emotionally dependant... He loves her... I know he does... but his libido is way too high for her I guess. If it's not me, it will be someone else...that I'm sure. She's lucky, in a way, that's it's me... he knows where I stand, plus he knows he's not the only one... he knows everything about my lifestyle... he is one of 'them'... He's safe with me... LOL Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Share Posted September 12, 2007 Jeez, ain't that the truth?! My exMM did exactly the same. He made out we were just having a 'friendship'. Oh, and also told his W that I was a 'fat minger' (his words). I suppose this reassured her that he would have a physical R with me if his life depended on it. He still carried on seeing me though. These guys lie like they breathe... and usually the W wouldn't believe these lies if they would come from their 10 year old kid... LOL Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Share Posted September 12, 2007 Don't you ever worry that you are going to mess with the wrong woman someday and she is going to show up at your door? Burn your house down... or whatever... Not at all... I have good insurance. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Share Posted September 12, 2007 Seriously, I meant that more in terms of Lizzie... You could have a small army of jaded wives out there and what if one stumbles along to this site and reads your views on this whole matter. It could send them through the roof. You are pretty easy to locate with the information here on this site and I assume there is a chance that someone looking on the net could find you here. Don't get me wrong... I am not making any accusations or anything I am really just wondering how you view this risk? be serious.. this is totally anonymous.. I doubt anyone can locate me in a city of thousands of people.. come on now... Link to post Share on other sites
popey Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 you said, "if it was not me, it would be someone else." So your victorious declaration that he came back like you knew he would is about what? That he in fact still has a need for some outside P*$$y, and yours is easy to access? Would you pat yourself on the back if a starving street person wanted to eat the meal you prepared too? Link to post Share on other sites
RealityCheck Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 Not at all... I have good insurance. :lmao::lmao: Your killing me here! Link to post Share on other sites
KenzieAbsolutely Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 Does this girl know personal stuff about you - what you look like, your age, etc? I can't help but to wonder how she took the age difference thing, if she even knew about it. if i believed lizzie was for real, i would vomit. i think i would be too ill to even be mad, and i would get over him with a quickness. no offense lizzie, of course, i would vomit if my SO slept with any person your age. it's not personal and i know you won't take it that way. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Share Posted September 12, 2007 if i believed lizzie was for real, i would vomit. i think i would be too ill to even be mad, and i would get over him with a quickness. no offense lizzie, of course, i would vomit if my SO slept with any person your age. it's not personal and i know you won't take it that way. You don't believe that a 55 yr old can be just as hot as a 25 yr old... I've got news for you babe! I know I can compete with MOST 25 yr old out there... cause I've had as much 20 yr old in the last 5 years as I had guys my age or even in their 40s... Sometimes I get the 'looks' from 20 something when they're with their gf's... I know those 'looks'... just yesterday, just around the corner from where I work... this guy flirted with me.. then I noticed he was holding his gf's hand. In restaurants... I've seen it more than once. I think it's funny and strange in a way. Link to post Share on other sites
RealityCheck Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 You don't believe that a 55 yr old can be just as hot as a 25 yr old... I've got news for you babe! I know I can compete with MOST 25 yr old out there... cause I've had as much 20 yr old in the last 5 years as I had guys my age or even in their 40s... Sometimes I get the 'looks' from 20 something when they're with their gf's... I know those 'looks'... just yesterday, just around the corner from where I work... this guy flirted with me.. then I noticed he was holding his gf's hand. In restaurants... I've seen it more than once. I think it's funny and strange in a way. I completely agree with you that age has nothing to do with anything! Its a combination of attitude, good DNA and keeping fit. I will never surrender myself to a number. Not now, not ever. I also know 50 yr olds that can give some 30 yr olds a run for their money in the appearance department. Link to post Share on other sites
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