Not sure how to..

[dannyG7]

Hey,

 

I've known this girl since middle school and am now in high school, we both go to different ones. Anyway she has started working at the same place as me and we have started talking (catching up etc.), it's only now that i've realised that I really fancy this girl. At the moment when we talk we just talk about general things like driving and the workplace, however I try and keep the subject about her.

 

Anyway I want to ask her out sometime but I am much too shy just to confront her and say, I would rather do some flirting first and show her that I fancy her. What do you guys recommend I talk/get her to talk about? And also how should I go about asking the question? Im thinking sending a message to her "PDA" (the things the employees use to scan items) saying like "Wanna go out some time? Dan :-)".

 

Thanks!

[sfsassy]

Hey,

 

I've known this girl since middle school and am now in high school, we both go to different ones. Anyway she has started working at the same place as me and we have started talking (catching up etc.), it's only now that i've realised that I really fancy this girl. At the moment when we talk we just talk about general things like driving and the workplace, however I try and keep the subject about her.

 

Anyway I want to ask her out sometime but I am much too shy just to confront her and say, I would rather do some flirting first and show her that I fancy her. What do you guys recommend I talk/get her to talk about? And also how should I go about asking the question? Im thinking sending a message to her "PDA" (the things the employees use to scan items) saying like "Wanna go out some time? Dan :-)".

 

Thanks!

 

That sounds lovely. I had a crush on my middle school friend for like ten years. I think at one point he liked me, but he never persued it, We have now been friends for 22 years, and he is my brother, and is married to a great woman.

[ftheunion]

Ask her if she's ever been (insert location here). I would suggest like a mountain. She will probably say no, then you could offer to go hiking up on that mountain with her. Then tell her anytime she wants, you go with her.

 

The conversation can just pass on and there is no akwardness cause you both are aquaintences. If she isn't interested, she won't mention that again. DO NOT bring it up again though or else you blow your cover.