Maybe some of you read my thread on the infidelity forum

[Havn_a_life]

Ah, you sound like one of those W's who is constantly emasculating her H. I wish you lots of luck with that in your M.

 

I guess all of us Ws are like that.

Nah, I don't put my H down or make him feel inferior to me. He's my equal.

As a matter of fact, I think we make a pretty good team now.

What is it Forest Gump says about him and Jenny? Peas and carrots? LOL

Thanks for wishing me luck in my M, though. Very nice of you!

[GreenEyedLady]

I'm taking it you and GreenEyedLady have been the OW and don't like taking responsibility for your own actions. You have no compassion for the victim (his wife). The OW/OM is NEVER a victim unless they were told they were not married. Deal with it. Plenty of perfect spouses are cheated on b/c they have an immoral spouse... period. Nothing they could have done would prevent it. I'm glad everyone in the world doesn't have your viewpoint or more people would be committing serious crimes and placing the blame elsewhere.

 

I'm taking it that you are a BS and that you are blaming OW for your H's indiscretions...How very familiar...

 

NO ONE IS PERFECT...

 

And you don't know my story or me...

[OpenBook]

You have no compassion for the victim (his wife). The OW/OM is NEVER a victim unless they were told they were not married. Deal with it.

 

I don't believe for a second that the BS is a victim. If she were taking better care of her H at home, he wouldn't be loose on the streets chasing OW. Deal with it.

 

Plenty of perfect spouses are cheated on b/c they have an immoral spouse... period.

 

If they're so "perfect," then why are they putting up with an immoral spouse?

[OpenBook]

And where does this whole, if the wife were kissing her H's a*ss he wouldn't stray crap come into it? That's BS right there.

 

Nah, I don't put my H down or make him feel inferior to me. He's my equal.

As a matter of fact, I think we make a pretty good team now.

What is it Forest Gump says about him and Jenny? Peas and carrots? LOL

Thanks for wishing me luck in my M, though. Very nice of you!

 

OK, Mrs. Jekyll & Hyde. I can't imagine what you put your H through. He must be so happy with that.

[Havn_a_life]

OK, Mrs. Jekyll & Hyde. I can't imagine what you put your H through. He must be so happy with that.

 

I have to say he is. But, aren't we all alittle jekyll and hyde sometimes? Even OWs?

My H's faults at cheating weren't my problems. I was and am still a good W. He's a good H too, now.

Sometimes it takes seeing the other side, which unfortunately turned out to be some really bad news on the OW's part where H is concerned, for a person to straighten what was wrong with themselves out and go on more happily.

Yeah, I think he is happier now. And I can say for sure that he definitely thinks OWs are not the route to take.

[StaringContest]

I don't see any Jekyll & Hyde. There's a big difference between kissing someone's *ss and treating them as an equal.

[Havn_a_life]

I think there's a whole lot of equal going on in my M.

I think some people might view it as assuming H is kissing my butt since he came back to our M, and left the OW behind.

I call it seeing what a huge mistake he made by having an A and correcting that mistake and making amends afterward.

 

My H doesn't kiss my a*ss, well, not in the way some posters may be saying, but then that's alittle TMI.

[Jinnah]

I don't believe for a second that the BS is a victim. If she were taking better care of her H at home, he wouldn't be loose on the streets chasing OW. Deal with it.

 

 

 

If they're so "perfect," then why are they putting up with an immoral spouse?

 

 

 

 

Some people actually believe in the sanctity of marriage and they have faith in their spouse... that's not a fault.

 

These are typical responses of a mistress who is in serious denial about their own misdeeds. Good luck on that.

[Havn_a_life]

Some people actually believe in the sanctity of marriage and they have faith in their spouse... that's not a fault.

 

These are typical responses of a mistress who is in serious denial about their own misdeeds. Good luck on that.

 

I think this is sad, too. How can an OW take something like the trust a W has for her H and twist it so deceitfully?

It's not like the OW should in any way trust the MM, when they have a relationship. He's lying to his W, for god's sake. Why wouldn't he be crapping on the OW?

And why should the OW be so mean as to say this:

 

Originally Posted by OpenBook

I don't believe for a second that the BS is a victim. If she were taking better care of her H at home, he wouldn't be loose on the streets chasing OW. Deal with it.

 

 

 

If they're so "perfect," then why are they putting up with an immoral spouse?

 

That's really sad and petty.

[OpenBook]

I think this is sad, too. How can an OW take something like the trust a W has for her H and twist it so deceitfully?

It's not like the OW should in any way trust the MM, when they have a relationship. He's lying to his W, for god's sake. Why wouldn't he be crapping on the OW?

 

Um... Yeah, OK I get it. The OW shouldn't trust the MM. Only the W should. Have fun with that approach.

[Havn_a_life]

Um... Yeah, OK I get it. The OW shouldn't trust the MM. Only the W should. Have fun with that approach.

 

Well, my point is that unbeknowst to the W(who is getting lied to by her H), she doesn't know that. Why should she be considered stupid or gullible or whatever by an OW?

When, in fact, the OW knows the guy is a lying cheating a*sshole. She knows what she's getting, so why is she so critical of the W, who doesn't even know, YET, that her H is like that.

Get my point?

 

If anyone is gullible it's the OW. She knowingly keeps "shop" with a lying POS.

The W shouldn't be put down or ridiculed for being M to a cheating spouse.