joeyku Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 :lmao:okay awhile ago august 21st me and my GF broke up... over a bunch of little arguments... and after that i was calling her and wishing for her back pleading that i will change... and i told her that im miserable now without her and saying how much i love her... and during our relationship, it was beautiful... i helped her a LOT with getting over her ex bf before me... since he used to beat her and stuff... and i helped her tremedously with that...she used to flinch at every sudden movement and now she doesnt cause i helped her with that... and one day we were coming home from a fun day in town and we past by her ex bfs old house... and she FREAKED... and i was able to calm her down by saying that im here and she was safe and hes not going to hurt her... now back on topic... we broke up and I still love her to this day and Ive been getting alot of help from people... and ive been talking about her to her friends because they know her and i think its helpful to talk to someone who knows her well... but it all went back to her and she said that she was "creeped" out by me because of how much i talked about her and called her... and she said that we shouldnt talk to eachother for a while... then i talked to hers and mine friend about how it seems clear that shes acting like a normal 15 year old (which she is) and I told him that im just gonna wait for her to grow up some then ill see about talking to her again... and then all that went back to her and she said this from what i remember: ""you are so pathetic, how could you tell bryce that im just an average 15 year old, get jealous of any guys I talk to , then turn around and flirt with other girls, then say "oh im just gonna wait for her to grow up... well YOU need to grow up, I grew up and thats why i broke up with you, so stop talking to my friends, and get a life!! Dont ever talk to me again and I dont ever want to see you again... you ****ed yourself over and lost me for good becasue of your dumbass mistakes"" and after seeing this I trembled... I thought i made her so happy but now this happens... does anyone have ANY help for me whatsoever? Do you think theres ANY chance of being with her again? I keep thinking that this is all because shes just 15... and im 17... but i made her so happy and Shes gone BACK to drinking and it doesnt seem like either of us are happy anymore... wtf is going on? please help anyone! Link to post Share on other sites
Author joeyku Posted September 12, 2007 Author Share Posted September 12, 2007 please people i need some help here! i hate checking this to see that no one has replied please help me Link to post Share on other sites
frd150 Posted September 12, 2007 Share Posted September 12, 2007 Cardinal Rule is never ever beg and plead. If your still doing it stop now. You need to step away for a while. Give her a chance to calm down. I was your age once and let me tell you, once you look at this with a clear head you may realize it was for the best. Ill bet that your surrounded by girls at school....nuf said. Sounds like she has some issues that are out of your control. Do not take her reaction to what you did personally. Step back and breath Enjoy being 17. FRD Link to post Share on other sites
Author joeyku Posted September 12, 2007 Author Share Posted September 12, 2007 yea im not talking to her anymore... and i am giving her all the space she needs... Link to post Share on other sites
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