ARMANI Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 I'm dating a wonderful man but lately I've been feeling atracted to another guy. I have no intentions on cheating but I feel weird wanting to see this guy and strike a casual conversation. Could it be that I don't love my guy? Does this happens to everybody else? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 1. "Could it be that I don't love my guy?" Not at all. As long as your heart is beating and your brain is putting out electrical impulses, you will be attracted to other males in some fashion or another despite your love for one person. The reason for getting into a committed relationship is for both parties to agree, one to the other, not to act on these attractions. In the initial stages of falling in love, most people are not attracted to members of the opposite sex except for their love interest. But after a time, they start noticing others again. If your current guy is kind, respectful, considerate, etc., you ought to keep him. This other guy you're attracted to and want to talk to could be a first class butthole. 2. "Does this happens to everybody else?" Not everybody...but close to it. Link to post Share on other sites
cTxRisinChnzSun Posted April 18, 2003 Share Posted April 18, 2003 jus becuz ur goin out with sum guy doesnt mean that u cant lay ur eyes on sumone else that seems attractive. it happens to everyone so dont worry. its not a big deal =) Link to post Share on other sites
lourdes Posted August 30, 2003 Share Posted August 30, 2003 tony I'm new to this site but must admit that your replies hit the nail on the head every time. Well done. Lourdes Link to post Share on other sites
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