birdman985 Posted September 13, 2007 Share Posted September 13, 2007 Me and my girlfriend had been going out for a year. We broke up at the beginning of summer because we kept arguing over stupid stuff. During the summer i found out that she was seeing some guy and i became angry. I had been with a couple girls during the summer, but every one of them i compared to my ex. Ne ways recently we all moved back up to school, including her. I visited her the second week of school and knew the connection was there. She wanted to hang out again so i invited her over. We had a 3 hr talk about how we missed each other and she also told me that she was seeing that same kid still. She told me she cant see me as just a friend and started kissing me. I told her, i couldn't see her with another guy, and i didn't think i could do it. But i did. We made a pact that we wouldn't let ne one know what went on, and that we would just take things slow. The problem is...i know we still love eachother, but she is seeing another guy. The guy lives 4 hrs away which means that the more we see eachother, the more we will b attached to eachother again. I dont want a relationship, nor does she, but the closer we get the more im going to want her to get rid of the other guy. What should i do? Should i just leave her alone? Or should we just take things slow even with the other guy and see how things go? Please respond! Link to post Share on other sites
on_my_way_out Posted September 13, 2007 Share Posted September 13, 2007 Why would you deny what you feel by hiding it. Either go at it full on and open or part. You will find out. Link to post Share on other sites
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