Mr. prince charming is back

[kitty99b]

This guy and I have had the strangest dating experience and I need help with our current dilema...first a little bit of history: We met in the begining of summer and dated for a few weeks, but he mysteriously dissapeared...refused to asnwer my calls and never called me once. I was very disappointed because I thought we were doing so well...a month and a half goes by and he texts me saying that he wanted to see me (we kept the texts going all day long), I was a little surprised but decided it would be a good opportunity to get some answers ...we made plans for the following day...When I was almost at his house I decided to give him a ring only to find that he "had forgotten" about our plans and was out with his friends...I felt like such a fool...the next morning I called him very early and totally spoke my mind...I mentioned how disrespectful it was to do what he did, how immature and mean it was, how he was such a jerk, ect...he listened me out and kept appologysing and asking me to let him make it up...I refused to see him again...a few days go by and I go out with my friends and get a few too many margaritas and couldn't resist the urge to call him...so I drunk dialed him and left two (needy-n-desperate) voicemails...needles to say he never answered them...so now it's been a month and a half since that...I was surfing through facebook and "accidently" found him...without thinking I wrote him a short little email saying that I found him irresponsible, arrogant, immature and that he should stop wearing clothes that look like they just came fromt he hamper....and also that although he potrays to be a nice guy, he really isn't so he should stop faking it...anyways I wasn't expecting him to pay any atenttion but turned out he did...and to my surprise he said that what I said was mean and that he wanted me to write him back why I was so upset...and few minutes later he wrote (again) asking me to call him....I have no idea why he thought I was upset (which is kinda true)..I am just soo confused...we had such a good chemistry and I liked him sooo much...if he hadn't messed up we could have been so much better off...I don't understand why he basically threw away the opportunity to be with me in the begining of this whole thing..the hardest thing is that I don't believe theres two people more compatible and purfect for one another like us....but I just don't know what to do about this weird dating thingy between us...does it seem like he wants something meaningful with me at all? should I give him anoter chance? How can I asnwer to his email? and what can I tell him if I call him?

Any help would be truly appreciated for I am sooo very lost in this situation