Chic03dd Posted April 13, 2003 Share Posted April 13, 2003 First off I would like to tell you I have never had a boyfriend and I am blind to any flirting signals, both doing and getting. Ok, well I like this dude alot but I really don't know if he likes me. Here's the deal. We have two classes together and in both classes we sit right next to each other. I know that he likes me as a friend because he said that I am the only chic he is comfortable around and I also make him laugh alot. But here's the problem, he went out with a cheerleader and I deffinetly don't look like a cheerleader. Another thing is when I see him at school during passing periods he seems to act the same way around girls as he does with me. Oh and to add to my missory I just turned 18 and he will be 17 in less than a month (Im a senior and he's a sophmore). All I know for a fact is that he does like me as a friend (His best friend confirmed that). Please HELP. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted April 13, 2003 Share Posted April 13, 2003 Considering all the information you have given, he does consider you more as a friend right now...and that's OK. You will soon be graduating and leaving him behind for two more years of high school. When you graduate you'll be meeting tons of guys in other settings and you will leave him in the dust...and he knows this. If you feel strongly, continue being his friend. If in a few years when he is in his 20's and you are too and you feel the same way then, maybe something can happen. He is now at a sensitive age and may fear all the gossip and funmaking if he got serious with an "older woman." Since you're a novice at dating, you should talk to your girlfriends and get some pointers. One I will give you here, focus your interest on guys your age or just a few years older...for now. As you get older, you can expand this age range. Link to post Share on other sites
j366755 Posted April 13, 2003 Share Posted April 13, 2003 I dont think the age thing matters that much, guys always go out with younger girls and as long as he`s mature enough it doesn`t matter. I know you say your not very good at reading signals but we need more than this. The feeling comfortable with you is a very hard one to read, this could either be very positive or not. Why dont you get one of your friends to observe you when your together? It may be easyer for someone else to read the signas and will let you just be yourself with him rather than trying to analise his behavior. Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted April 13, 2003 Share Posted April 13, 2003 I'm with Tony on this one. A 17-year-old boy smells like trouble! Check out the ones >= your age. -yes PS guys will often make themselves sound lonely to make you feel closer to them - so don't take that comment about you being the only gal he can get along with too seriously! Link to post Share on other sites
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