Femme Posted April 13, 2003 Share Posted April 13, 2003 I don't like using that term because I think it promotes a double standard in society but my sister is very promiscuous, and it is starting to damage my own relationships. I went out with her on the weekend and ended up hooking up with a friend of mine I've like for ages. We were all in a group and although everyone was drinking, my sister got absolutely blind drunk. She then proceeded to tell this guy that I'd had a crush on him for ages, and even flirt with him herself. She made a further idiot out of herself by trying to crack onto this guy who has a girlfriend (and he reciprocated, putting me in the awful position of whether to tell his girlfriend, my best friend). Well to cut a long story short I ended up back at this guy's place and she had come with us, because I was giving her a ride home. She just wanted to crash out for awhile so as a joke my guy friend put her in his flatmate's bedroom. Big mistake! An hour later I was in the middle of making out with this guy and my sister comes running in saying we have to leave, rambling crap about how his flatmate was a pig bla bla bla. Turns out he had made the mistake of wanting to put a condom on when she woke him up and offered to give him a blow job!! I couldn't believe she would actually do that with a stranger, but weirder still was how she was offended that he wanted it to be safe. Anyway, I'm sure by now my 'friend' has heard all the disgusting details. He said he'd call me today but hasn't, and I am really scared that my sister's behaviour has somehow turned him off me. Link to post Share on other sites
Kat Posted April 13, 2003 Share Posted April 13, 2003 You were making out with this guy who had a g/f? Link to post Share on other sites
Femme Posted April 13, 2003 Share Posted April 13, 2003 The guy I was with is very single. I was referring to ANOTHER guy in the group she was trying to crack onto. I just don't want my sister's lewd behaviour to ruin my chances with this guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Kat Posted April 13, 2003 Share Posted April 13, 2003 I am sure this guy will be able to tell the difference between your behaviour and your sisters. Just explain to your sister, without giving her too much information to use against you, and make sure this guy knows you like him. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted April 13, 2003 Share Posted April 13, 2003 It's very possible a guy could judge you by the behavior of your sister...but only to the extent of wondering why in heaven's name you would let her accompany you to places that require a measure of class and discretion. Link to post Share on other sites
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