EYECANDY000 Posted September 18, 2007 Share Posted September 18, 2007 Ive been seeing a guy for the past 3 months now and for the most part we hit it off very well. My text message inbox has sky rocketed from 400 a month to 2,500 a month just from him. We are basicly friends still in the getting to know stage. We became intimate within about 2 months or so of meeting each other . Now my thing is that he does everything through text messages. Which I dont have a problem with because to me I feel texting makes it a lot more easy to break dates, tell someone your late etc etc. I would rather someone text me and tell me that something came up instead of me not hearing from them at all. So, just recently he texted me and asked him: "how is my girl" Me: "im good" Him: So your my girl me: yes him: really? Me: R u ready for that? hIm: i think its cute so, some how we got on the subject of something else? So the next day , he says that he is going to a wedding next month and would love for me to come along with him, so i said sure ill go. Later that night I went over his house to hang out! He didnt say anything about it , so I didnt either! Has anyone ever had a similar situation? Like not exactly knowing where you stand with someone? I would ask him, but I dont want to seem like im coming on a little strong. ive expressed my feelings to him before , so I dont want him to kind of feel like Im pressuring him. I want to ask like hey were you joking when u sent me those texts, but , like I said if he dont mention it I wont either. I guess it just feels kind of funny because this is stuff that I use to do when I was 15 or 16. Like, write a note to a guy and ask them do u like me please circle yes or no .. lol we are in our late twenties for peaks sake! Link to post Share on other sites
popey Posted September 18, 2007 Share Posted September 18, 2007 Why not start by asking about the wedding? just ask, "So am I supposed to be planning to go to a wedding somewhere sometime?" and see where that goes. But ask in person, not text. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 18, 2007 Share Posted September 18, 2007 first off has mr. texts got you to screw him? Link to post Share on other sites
Author EYECANDY000 Posted September 18, 2007 Author Share Posted September 18, 2007 we became intimate because we like each other, it wasnt planned through text if thats what your asking hahaha Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted September 18, 2007 Share Posted September 18, 2007 I replied to your other thread about this - But bottomline, you two need to start actually talking on the phone. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted September 18, 2007 Share Posted September 18, 2007 lol thats not where I was heading with that question. But yes I would say he was seriouse and you wouldnt seem out of line if you wanted to talk about it Link to post Share on other sites
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