Yes or No

[trh]

I have never had a problem with girls before, but this one has me really confused. I like her alot, and she seems to feel the same way about me. She comes into my work (I bartend) and sits where ever i am working. We talk alot, she is always smiling and looking at me. We get into some pretty deep conversations and talk about doing things that are going on in a couple months. We have talked on the phone a couple of times and today she calls me to ask if i am working so she can come pick up the book i am going to lend her. She comes in we talk abit. I asked her when she was off this week. She says Wed. I say lets get some dinner. She replys by saying "Sure" It was a very week "sure" with no smile. More of a blank stare with a slight nod. I say, O wait im off on Tue and Thur. She says I get off early on Tue, you can call me if you want. I say, Cool, you call me too, when you get off work and we will get some dinner. Later on I managed to get Wed off. I called and left a message on her voicemail saying I was able to get Wed off, so we can go our for dinner then sence we both have it off, Call me back. She has yet to call me back. I feel like a school boy crush. Its kind of embarssing. What do you all think?

[Aintayankee]

Not sure. If she isn't enthused all the time, how are us guys supposed to tell.

[Magnatolia]

Bit more background info would be useful. Have you ever deliberately done something with her such as dinner, lunch, movies etc, or is it more that you have bumped into each other.

 

If you haven't then she may find the idea of dinner a bit daunting. If she doesn't call back she's not interested. She may come up with an excuse. If she does then wait and see if she backs off. If she's not interested she will probably come around and chat to you less.

[Road Rage]

The OW thing may be going on with her. You can never discount it if a woman is vague when you try to make definite plans.

 

But maybe you have been friendzoned too.

 

Third guess is she could have her eye on Mr Rite out there somewhere and she is keeping her slate open for him. She`s got her slate open and she`s a hopin`

 

I mean, not much more you can do at this point I guess:confused:

[glittergurl]

The good thing is she didn't say no. I agree however that she might have friendzoned you, but that I don't know for sure, it's just a possibility.

 

It's kind of hard to tell without more background details, such as: how long have you two known eachother, when was the last time she was in a relationship, could she be in love with someone else at the moment, do you guys go out for dinner on a regular basis, or is that the first time dinner is mentioned, etc

 

Without all that background info, it just sounds like you got yourself a nice friend to hang out with. She sounds casual and laid back.