littlemac8 Posted September 18, 2007 Share Posted September 18, 2007 Ok...so my boyfriend and I had been dating since our sophmore year of high school, about 4 years. Around 5 months ago he got drunk and kissed another girl at a party. He told me that night and I forgave him. However, for the months after that we argued constantly over stupid things and I let my trust issues get the best of me. Also in the recent months, he has not been treating me the way I deserve to be treated. He has been putting his friends and work before me and has not been very attentative or caring. I will be able to get over this if he will treat me the way he used to... We broke up last Sunday with the intention to spend some time apart and make sure that we are truly the ones for each other. However, he has called me twice in the last week and when I asked about one of his friends (a girl) he got very defensive and said they were just good friends. He says he just wants to be alone right now, and not in a relationship with anyone, but I am worried he is going to move on. I know I have no right to be upset, because we both need to make sure we truly love one another, but I am not sure what is going to happen. We ended on very good terms, telling each other we loved one another, and kissing goodbye, and discussing how we could possibly be in the future. Should I continue to not contact him? And how long do you think it will take for us to realize what we had? Do you think we can go back to the way things were before? Link to post Share on other sites
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