how do i find him????

[mishy]

I went out the other night to this club. I went there just to dance, after having a fight with a friend earlier that night.

Anyway after 5 minutes bumped into this guy on the dancefloor, started talking, and not long after that started pashing. probably kissed for about 5 hours, there and at different clubs, got pretty hot and heavy.

 

During thenight he was saying things like I definately want to get your number, want o see you tomorrow, and want to take you camping, we'll go for long walks and go back to the tent and make love.....full of compliments, but no he wasnt drunk really. I thought yeah ill give him my number when we part , whatever. I really liked him.

 

Here there is a night club law where if you are outside after 3am you are not allowed back in. It means that people get separated, all sorts of drama but its designed to stop drunk people get in or something. Its dumb.

 

Anyway he said lets go downstairs, but instead i went outside and then he wasnt behind me and basically i lost him because i wasnt allowed back in. I definately know he wasnt deliberately trying to lose me because he was talking about the camping etc moments before we got separated.

 

I only know 3 things about him. His first name, his occupation and the suburb where he lives. I dont know anything else because we did more kissing than talking.

 

Why didnt i give him my number when he asked?????????Ive kissed guys at clubs before but never wanted to see them again. This guy was different. he was absolutely nuts over me, and i felt the same.

 

How on earth can i track him down?? I feel like putting signs on lamp posts all over town!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[mishy]

i thought about going back there this sat night to see if he is there, but he was there for his birthday, and i dont know that he is a regular of any sort.

[directx]

Just go to the clubs and look for a guy that has been kissing a girl he just met that night for 5 hours.

 

He should stand out.

[mishy]

very funny

[directx]

Honestly, the only thing you can do is keep visiting those places.

You are probably better off picking the first one and staying there the whole night.

Maybe wear the same clothes you wore too, so he can recognize you better.

 

And be somewhere visible in the place.

 

And ask the bartenders! They might remember him.

 

I think thats all you can do.

[JustCurious]

This happened to me recently. Met a guy while on vacation & I wanted to kick myself in the butt afterwards for not exchanging info (I only knew a few basic things about him too). I'm the LAST person to go searching for someone let alone a guy I only met once & I debated for weeks if I should even bother but I liked him enough to give it a shot & I was able to locate him on Myspace.

 

I thought this is it, fate! When I finally got the nerve to email him, it wouldnt go through because of spam filters or something it only accepts messages from people he knows Sucks big time, I rather I did not find him on there at all knowing he's within reach & there's nothing I can do about it.

 

So, maybe try looking on there or Friendster or maybe he's on a single's website or something. Good luck and if it's meant to be it will be!

[szq77]

Mishy have you tried CraigsList Missed Connections? There's all kinds of posts in there for similar situations... You should check it out, it couldn't hurt.

[bioshock]

"..probably kissed for about 5 hours, there and at different clubs, got pretty hot and heavy. "

 

HE is probably doing the above with some random chick as we speak..

be thankful you were NOT added to his Top 100 HIT List (victims)