love_27 Posted April 14, 2003 Share Posted April 14, 2003 Hey, I'm a new user so bear with me.. Um, okay well there's this amazing girl I met in September (school). From the first day we met we hit it off really well. We became good friends really fast.. But.. like an idiot I fall in love with her. I asked her out once and after she didn't talk to me for a week (I hate that, but that's a topic for another time) she said that she just got out of a relationship. She said she wasn't exactly sure of her feelings towards me but she said she just wants to be friends. Her most recent boyfriend was her best friend until they broke up now she doesn't talk to him at all anymore so I kinda know where she's coming from on that. This is where it gets tricky.. after I asked her out and she went on about being friends, we've become even closer. We spend a LOT of time together and she's becoming very flirty. She once saw me cuddling with another friend of mine (no emotional interest there, we're just cuddle-buddies.. lol) and since then gives that friend evil glares and tries to keep me away from her as much as possible. It's very confusing, I don't know if I should give her time and keep pursuing her of if I should just be her friend and move on.. aarrgghh.. *pulls hair out* Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted April 14, 2003 Share Posted April 14, 2003 here's what i would do: ask her out one more time - just ask casually if she by any chance has changed her mind. if she says no, back off BIG time. if she's interested, she'll come after you (happened to me once, me being the gal!) If she's not interested - there you go, no more hair-pulling. good luck, -yes Link to post Share on other sites
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