Redman53 Posted April 14, 2003 Share Posted April 14, 2003 I'm a 16 year old sophmore in highschool, and in my 7th period lunch i found out a girl who i was attracted to was interested in me, at the time i was going out with a different girl, but now I'm single and I asked a friend of mine to check if she was still interested and turns out that she is, she gave her number to my friend and said for me to call her on monday... I have never spoken with this girl before, all i know is her name, she is 1 year older than me and really hott. I want to call, but what should i say!? "hey its me from lunch.. i heard you wanna hook up" isnt really what i wanna say even tho that would probably work anyone know what i could say? and how i could go about making plans to go out with her? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted April 14, 2003 Share Posted April 14, 2003 "Hi, this is Redman53...how are you? A friend of mine gave me your number because I've been looking forward to talking to you and I finally got my opportunity. "Thanks for giving your number to him to pass on to me. I see you at school all the time and am always curious about what you do when you're not in school." "What area of town do you live in/" "Do you do anything special on the weekends." "What kinds of movies do you like." "Have you ever been to a live concert before. I'd love to go sometime myself...maybe I could get some tickets and we could go sometime." You best bet is to make a list of topics to discuss before you call her. Then you can be relaxed and things will move fine. Go with the flow and don't make the conversation rigid because you are trying to stick to your notes. Use them as a standby in case there is silence or you run out of things to talk about. Once you get the ball rolling, you may be able to talk to her for hours without any problems. I just love the women who do all the talking. I can take a nap or put my hand over the phone and watch TV while they are talking away. (Just kidding, don't do that). Maybe you'll luck out and she'll do all the talking. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted April 14, 2003 Share Posted April 14, 2003 and it's never a good idea to ask, "so ... what are you wearing?" Link to post Share on other sites
Author Redman53 Posted April 14, 2003 Author Share Posted April 14, 2003 wow thx alot, I think I'm making this out to be a bigger deal than it should be cause this girl is unbelievably hott, I dont wanna mess up my chances with her just cause talking on the phone was to awquard or something. But I think I'll do good with your advice, thx alot bro I'll laugh so hard if she says "so... what are you wearing?" Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted April 14, 2003 Share Posted April 14, 2003 interesting that you say that you love women who do all the talking. i read somewhere recently that the two most attractive features in a woman are confidence & "ease of conversation". -yes Link to post Share on other sites
Author Redman53 Posted April 14, 2003 Author Share Posted April 14, 2003 lol, I'm still workin up the balls to call her... whats the matter with me??? I cant be afraid of rejection casue I already know shes interested! so why cant i call?! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted April 14, 2003 Share Posted April 14, 2003 YOU ASK: "so why cant i call?!" Are you waiting to grow a pair of cojones (balls)??? Get on the phone and call her. The worst thing that can happen is lightening will strike the telephone lines nearby, travel through the line to your phone, knock you unconscious, you'll wake up in heaven, and you won't have to worry about calling her ever again. That's the WORST than can happen!!! Well, actually, the worst thing that can happen is that you will not call her and you will never know just how wonderful it would be to go out with her and enjoy her company. Send me a private mail with her phone number, I'll call her, take her out...and I'll send you a nice mail telling you how wonderful it was being with her. Would you like that??? Somebody's going to call her if you don't...so it may as well be me!!! Right??? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted April 14, 2003 Share Posted April 14, 2003 YOU WRITE: "i read somewhere recently that the two most attractive features in a woman are confidence & "ease of conversation"." I don't think I've every read that before but I will agree that some of the most attractive features do sometimes come in twos!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Redman53 Posted April 14, 2003 Author Share Posted April 14, 2003 I called her! shes awesome, had a few laughs and decided we'd call each other back when we think of something that we can do together! i need something that we can do!! any suggestions? Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted April 14, 2003 Share Posted April 14, 2003 movie? concert? dinner? exhibition? lunch? park? hike? tennis? dancing? drinks? drawing outside? there's a zillion things to do =) -yes Link to post Share on other sites
Homer Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 It's all about confidence. I don't care what you look like or what your faults are, women friends of mine have always said a confident man is a man that can maintain their interest. I was in your same boat...scared to death to call a really hot chick. I made the call and we ended up talking for hours. Turns out she was more nervous to hear from me than I was to call her. Funny how that goes. They don't know your guts are all twisted up inside and they don't need to. Prepare some topics to talk about just in case, make the call, and be confident. Link to post Share on other sites
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