freedom83 Posted September 21, 2007 Share Posted September 21, 2007 Found out the truth behind something I've been speculating. My ex and i have broken up many times in our 5 year relationship and always got back with each other. i found out he has was sexually involved with another girl during our breakup and then he got back with me a month later. i speculated that he was involved with her but kept denying it in my head. I even asked him but of course what guy wouldn’t lie? Then 2 years later, I wondered why he was taking a long trip down to California. I knew the girl he dated was living down there but he also had a lot of friends down there, that was second time in denial. About 2 months after his trip to cali, we broke up. We were just not happy, but then we made a mistake of continuing to see each other. He left his e-mail up when he was sleeping and I snooped, I found out he went to visit that girl. That left me devastated because we were dating when he went on vacation. I confronted him and we blew up at each other (me finding out he saw her, and confessed to sleeping with her 2 years ago and him finding out I was snooping). So right now of course I am hurt, but we decided to be cordial with each other. I hate the fact he lied to me, and I let myself get in this situation. How do I move on from this “betrayal?” What are your guys’ tips? We’re broken up so that’s done. But how do you heal emotionally? Link to post Share on other sites
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