Author everynameistaken Posted September 22, 2007 Author Share Posted September 22, 2007 Tomcat you're a real jerk. Thanks so much for all of your harsh words. I feel incredibly sorry for whomever you are with. Very angry person you are. Link to post Share on other sites
Author everynameistaken Posted September 22, 2007 Author Share Posted September 22, 2007 No, tomcat (or should I say *********?). People who rebuttal my opinions are not all jerks, just those who are RUDE about it. you're a freaking jerk! Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted September 22, 2007 Share Posted September 22, 2007 Tomcat you're a real jerk. Thanks so much for all of your harsh words. I feel incredibly sorry for whomever you are with. Very angry person you are. Ok, I see. Link to post Share on other sites
Author everynameistaken Posted September 22, 2007 Author Share Posted September 22, 2007 By the way, genius, "whore" is not an adjective. It's a noun. You're real bright, aren't ya? Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted September 22, 2007 Share Posted September 22, 2007 No, tomcat (or should I say *********?). People who rebuttal my opinions are not all jerks, just those who are RUDE about it. you're a freaking jerk! Instead of resorting to name calling why don't you offer your prespective on the points I've touched on to find a common understanding? It appears for someone who is quick to point out others as "angry" you do seem to hurl a lot of insults. Typically it's the angry people that use emotion in the form of insults to convey thoughts. Why don't you convey a thought instead of an emotion? Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted September 22, 2007 Share Posted September 22, 2007 Tomcat you're a real jerk. Thanks so much for all of your harsh words. I feel incredibly sorry for whomever you are with. Very angry person you are. Some people here enjoy looking for a fight. Focus on the good and don't let yourself be baited. It is just what they want so you can be infracted. Am I right TC? Don't let a few bitter or resentful peeps bring you down or scare you off. Be careful in your arguments and your posting. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted September 22, 2007 Share Posted September 22, 2007 By the way, genius, "whore" is not an adjective. It's a noun. You're real bright, aren't ya? In the sentence "Women are whores" the word whore acts as an adjective. In the sentence "That whore is not much of a woman" the word whore acts as a noun. I guess that would make us both correct. Link to post Share on other sites
Author everynameistaken Posted September 22, 2007 Author Share Posted September 22, 2007 You're a non-classless twat, plain and simple. Angry, mean, and irrational. I don't debate those types. Oh, and because you're controlling demeanour means you must have the last word, feel free. God forbid you can't get in your last nasty comment of making me the scapegoat. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted September 22, 2007 Share Posted September 22, 2007 Some people here enjoy looking for a fight. Focus on the good and don't let yourself be baited. It is just what they want so you can be infracted. Am I right TC? Yeah I'm sure that happens. I however was simply stating my opinion, harsh or not it is my opinion, this forum is filled with harsh opinions mine is no different. I shouldn't have to apologise for having my own opinion now should I? Link to post Share on other sites
Author everynameistaken Posted September 22, 2007 Author Share Posted September 22, 2007 You were referring to a sentence in which the word 'whore' was a noun, now you are backtracking using anothe example, becuase your controlling personality cannot be wrong. Only strengthens my point. I can only imagine the complaints someone has had being your significant other. Lord help them! Link to post Share on other sites
Author everynameistaken Posted September 22, 2007 Author Share Posted September 22, 2007 When you're a jerk, yes, you should apologize. You were nasty. NO NEED for that. Reread your post. I welcome other opinions - love them, in fact. Just not a hostile one. You hung me out to dry with no cause. Very inappropriate behavior. As the saying goes, bullies only reply to force, hence my response(s). Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted September 22, 2007 Share Posted September 22, 2007 You were referring to a sentence in which the word 'whore' was a noun, now you are backtracking using anothe example, becuase your controlling personality cannot be wrong. Only strengthens my point. I can only imagine the complaints someone has had being your significant other. Lord help them! I was actually refering to a sentence in which the word "whore" was an adjective, you should know you are the one who wrote that sentence remember? here you go in case you forgot what you wrote: It speaks volumes because nobody likes to be called a whore, Pandora. Especially people who aren't Link to post Share on other sites
Author everynameistaken Posted September 22, 2007 Author Share Posted September 22, 2007 WHICHWAYISUP - I think you made good points without hostility and sarcasm. Thank you. I agree - I think our friendship does have elements that I didn't previously realise were inappropriate and I agree I need to correct them. I'm glad you pointed that out. Thanks for being upfront and kind. Link to post Share on other sites
Author everynameistaken Posted September 22, 2007 Author Share Posted September 22, 2007 "Nobody likes to be called a whore." It's a NOUN. Take the positive, not the negative frame of this, to illustrate the grammar..."I like to be called a whore." "I like to be called a banker, a waitress, etc." "I am a whore." They're all NOUNS. They are what you call proper nouns (as opposed to common nouns). It's a noun, not an adjective. English structure = Subject - Verb - Noun I (subject) am (verb) a whore (noun). I (subject) am (verb) a whoreful (adjective) bitch (noun). Adjectives describe nouns. Link to post Share on other sites
Author everynameistaken Posted September 22, 2007 Author Share Posted September 22, 2007 I hold a master's degree in linguistics and have taught grammar at the college level. I am also British. Enough said. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted September 22, 2007 Share Posted September 22, 2007 "Nobody likes to be called a whore." It's a NOUN. Take the positive, not the negative frame of this, to illustrate the grammar..."I like to be called a whore." "I like to be called a banker, a waitress, etc." "I am a whore." They're all NOUNS. They are what you call proper nouns (as opposed to common nouns). It's a noun, not an adjective. English structure = Subject - Verb - Noun I (subject) am (verb) a whore (noun). I (subject) am (verb) a whoreful (adjective) bitch (noun). Adjectives describe nouns. Fine that example is bang on BUT in nobody likes to be called a whore nobody (noun) likes to be called (verb) a whore (adjective) Aaaaanywho...you're right on one thing NOBODY likes to be called a whore, and starting on that point you should consider that before you throw that term out to anyone out here. That's more the valid point. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted September 22, 2007 Share Posted September 22, 2007 I hold a master's degree in linguistics and have taught grammar at the college level. I am also British. Enough said. Explain to me then when you called me "non-classless" I suppose that makes me "with class". two negatives making a positive and all that nonesense.... k it's late so let's just brush it off as midnight madness... Link to post Share on other sites
Author everynameistaken Posted September 22, 2007 Author Share Posted September 22, 2007 I just realized you are a woman. Explains A LOT!!! Being one I think I can comment on how bitchy women can be who are threatened. LOL I bet you were cheated on, eh? I mean, you're so pleasant to talk to, I'm sure living with you is a dream. Link to post Share on other sites
Author everynameistaken Posted September 22, 2007 Author Share Posted September 22, 2007 Non-classless - It's a British term, TomCat. You should know that because you know everything! I mean, you are THE authority! Link to post Share on other sites
Author everynameistaken Posted September 22, 2007 Author Share Posted September 22, 2007 If you are British, are you cockney or something? Welsh? Maybe it's simply a matter of growing up in different areas - very possible. If I can't use slang here, what's the use? As double-negative as it can be, it's highly accepted in the boarding school I attended as everyday chat. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted September 22, 2007 Share Posted September 22, 2007 I just realized you are a woman. Explains A LOT!!! Being one I think I can comment on how bitchy women can be who are threatened. LOL I bet you were cheated on, eh? I mean, you're so pleasant to talk to, I'm sure living with you is a dream. Hun Im not threatened in the least. Nothing about your post threatens me, beleive me when I tell you that. I've been where you are and I know a recipe for disaster when I see one that's all. Reading though all the posts on this thread and seeing your reaction to a lot of the responses here just made me realise that you are somewhat in denial of what you are going doing. It hink your intentions are good but your actions sort of deny your intentions. I think you came here for a reason, hope you find what you are looking for. I just want you to know that when you open up a thread topic with an arrogant tone you are going to get encounter some resistance. I just don't see the point of offending so many people in one go, first you offend OW now you offend me under the pretext that you think I am a betrayed spouse, the point is it doesn't really matter what my background is does it? Or what any of the backgrounds of any of he people that gave you opinions you did not care for were. Given you are not really here for advice or any sort of guidance as you stated in your opening statement. So why not just accept the differing points of views and opinions given you were also just posting an opinion? Link to post Share on other sites
MrsHellnoFire Posted September 22, 2007 Share Posted September 22, 2007 If you are British, are you cockney or something? Welsh? Maybe it's simply a matter of growing up in different areas - very possible. If I can't use slang here, what's the use? As double-negative as it can be, it's highly accepted in the boarding school I attended as everyday chat. so kids perpetuated this non-sensical term? well, that makes sense. anyways, are you a loney woman desperate in her aging years? i dont understand why you are vying for this man's attention when you know where it's leading. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted September 22, 2007 Share Posted September 22, 2007 If you are British, are you cockney or something? Welsh? Maybe it's simply a matter of growing up in different areas - very possible. If I can't use slang here, what's the use? As double-negative as it can be, it's highly accepted in the boarding school I attended as everyday chat. I am not British, so that is why I don't understand your slang. To us in North America, non-classless would imply you actually have class, but ok I accept it is a colloquial Brit term. Thanks for sharing that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author everynameistaken Posted September 22, 2007 Author Share Posted September 22, 2007 No, I'm not old by any means, but talk about ageism (yes we put e's there). LOL Nice comment to those on here who are actually old. What if I were? I don't seek attention, I care about my friend. He's a great person. He is struggling, obviously, and I realize that now. That's all. Maybe I should just tell him to bugger off. Would that satisfy the likes of you? Who cares about 20 years of friendship? Sod off! The people on the boards said I should just cut you loose, so I have to follow in their wise instruction and do as they say.I'm your other woman because I talk to you about things that actually MATTER in life. They know all. Bahhhhhhhhhhhh. Here little sheep. I realise now how silly it was to ask for feedback on the Interfreakingnet. Being British is no better than being American, Canadian, or French. Well, maybe French! It's simply a fact. It's the Americans who think we are arrogant and we're not, actually. The minute you tell someone you're British, you're perceived differently. It's not a very open-minded society the other side of the ocean, I fear to say, but we Brits have loads of our own problems so I'm not one to throw stones. At the end of the day, we all just have a pint. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted September 22, 2007 Share Posted September 22, 2007 No, I'm not old by any means, but talk about ageism (yes we put e's there). LOL Nice comment to those on here who are actually old. What if I were? I don't seek attention, I care about my friend. He's a great person. He is struggling, obviously, and I realize that now. That's all. Maybe I should just tell him to bugger off. Would that satisfy the likes of you? Who cares about 20 years of friendship? Sod off! The people on the boards said I should just cut you loose, so I have to follow in their wise instruction and do as they say.I'm your other woman because I talk to you about things that actually MATTER in life. They know all. Bahhhhhhhhhhhh. Here little sheep. I realise now how silly it was to ask for feedback on the Interfreakingnet. Being British is no better than being American, Canadian, or French. Well, maybe French! It's simply a fact. It's the Americans who think we are arrogant and we're not, actually. The minute you tell someone you're British, you're perceived differently. It's not a very open-minded society the other side of the ocean, I fear to say, but we Brits have loads of our own problems so I'm not one to throw stones. At the end of the day, we all just have a pint. Personallly, I LOVE England and love Brits been invoveld with a few romantically as well I might add... so not sure what you mean...but I can't speak for everyone. I just thought your opening post was a bit arrogant in tone that's all. Having said that... Your situation is hard, it is a longtime friendship but it has now turned into something else on his part at least and especially if he is having problems in the marriage it is a do or die point. Why he is professing his feelings to you at this particular time could be a combination of his marital problems, plus the idea that the two of you have had a long standing tie for such a long time. Don't overlook the fact that he is confronting you at this particular moment when he is feeling unfulfilled in his M, he may be looking for an escape and confuse you and your friendship for something else. You on the other hand offer him support like you would for any friend but he might be interpreting that as more BECAUSE he feels he is lacking stuff in his rel. What do you feel you should do? Do you think you can still be friends knowing what you know? Link to post Share on other sites
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