What is going on? Is it me?

[Ken]

I really don't know why I'm writing this for I never though I would be feeling like this or going through this Let me explain....

 

I been always been a man who never took anything from a women. If I felt things wasn't right I was out !!!! I been through three states I'm from Brooklyn, NY lived in PA for three yrs and Now I'm in Ohio. I'm getting married in less then 30 days. For the first time in my life I want this to work out not like I did in all my other Relaltionships. Everything is good about about our relationship except sex, which lead me to ask her Was I satifing her for I never had a problem in that dept she said their was nothing wrong But We have sex once a week or longer. if i do get any it up to me to started. Look this is killing me for I'm tring for the first time in my life to be truthful and not cheat but what do i do ? I don't think she would say to me now when we are so close to our day what do i do?

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I really don't know why I'm writing this for I never though I would be feeling like this or going through this Let me explain.... I been always been a man who never took anything from a women. If I felt things wasn't right I was out !!!! I been through three states I'm from Brooklyn, NY lived in PA for three yrs and Now I'm in Ohio. I'm getting married in less then 30 days. For the first time in my life I want this to work out not like I did in all my other Relaltionships. Everything is good about about our relationship except sex, which lead me to ask her Was I satifing her for I never had a problem in that dept she said their was nothing wrong But We have sex once a week or longer. if i do get any it up to me to started. Look this is killing me for I'm tring for the first time in my life to be truthful and not cheat but what do i do ? I don't think she would say to me now when we are so close to our day what do i do?

Better sit down with her and have a heart-to-heart. Everyone's sex drive is different. If there's really not a problem of any kind, then try to reach a happy medium.I'm a female in my late 30's and have the same thing going on. My b/f and I plan to get married in the spring, but I need to think about it some more. He's happy to have sex once a month, I need lots more. So far we haven't found that meeting point and it creates lots of friction between us. You need to get this worked out before you get married because it won't get better later.