zsunnydayz Posted September 24, 2007 Share Posted September 24, 2007 I don't know if this thread belongs here, but I am going to put it here anyway...This is really embarrassing to talk about, because it just makes no sense to me at all, but then again, I'm starting to question my sexuality. Last night, I had the most intense dream. I had a dream, that I was performing oral sex on another woman....and the strangest part of the dream was that I was actually enjoying it. This seems kind of weird, but I was actually enjoying myself and I felt like I knew how to please another woman...When I woke up, my nipples were hard and I was very horny, but when I finally realized what I had been dreaming about, I was in complete shock and denial. I couldn't believe it. I've never had a dream like this one before. After I realized what I was thinking to myself, I started to second guess my sexuality. I kept thinking to myself "am I attracted to women?", but then I finally told myself that there is no way I would ever choose a vagina over a penis...There's just NOWAY! Then I started thinking, "well, I do judge females and their appearances", but all women judge each other, right? After having this dream, I felt so guilty, like I cheated on my boyfriend or something...I couldn't even look at him when I first woke up...What's up with that? I'm all better now, but just the thought of sleeping w/ someone else makes me feel guilty. Have you ever had a sex dream about the same sex? I don't think a man would ever admit that he had a sex dream about another man? I also want to say that I could never picture myself looking at other females in that way. I would never even think about having sex w/ another woman--it just seems nasty...I could never see myself sticking my fingers into some other females vaginal area, it just seems so icky, and it doesn't turn me own at all...It's not something I would do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author zsunnydayz Posted September 24, 2007 Author Share Posted September 24, 2007 There has to be someone out there who has had a dream like this....I mean COME ON.... Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted September 24, 2007 Share Posted September 24, 2007 Dreams are dreams! I once dreamed that I was killing people randomly with a shotgun! That doesnt mean I'm going to go out and do it... or even that I want to. I wouldnt question your sexuality based on a dream. Base it on what you find attractive. Remember homosexuality can be a learned trait! Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 24, 2007 Share Posted September 24, 2007 Have you ever had a sex dream about the same sex? I don't think a man would ever admit that he had a sex dream about another man? Yep, plenty of times. You wouldn't believe the amount of dream p*ssy I have gone through. Those are usually wet dreams too. I have dreams about men as well. I don't think it has anything to do with gay or straight. Its just your brain cycling through random stuff and creating pictures out of disorganized thoughts. Someone once described dreams to me as "your brain taking a dump." Sometimes dreams make sense, other times not. On a serious note, I have read in dream interpretation texts that every person you dream about is an aspect of yourself that you see in that person, so perhaps this woman you were enjoying was, in a sense an aspect of your own security and enjoyment of your body and your sexuality in general. The only men who ever admitted such a thing to me are the ones who are close enough to me that they wouldn't feel embarrassed or ashamed about it, or worry what I might think about it. Or.. gay. Seriously though, I do think men are less likely to bring something like this up in general because they don't want to be seen as associated with anything even remotely approaching homosexuality. Link to post Share on other sites
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