Ssheena Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Just tell yourself you can get through the day. I can't imagine how hard it must be to have to see him and if necessary, be pleasant to him. How tough that must be. I would do everything I could to stay where I could not see him. Either that or it might help to imagine him in some ridiculous situation (ie, naked or with used toilet paper stuck to his shoe or something to put in your head to get the thoughts out). Got any vacation days you can use? Link to post Share on other sites
Author carrotgirl Posted September 27, 2007 Author Share Posted September 27, 2007 Only a few more hours to go. Have an unexpected deadline. He's still here "playing" with the other big boys that are actually boys. A good friend has kept in touch every quarter hour the whole day through so I would have an outlet just in case. My stomach is wretching and lurching. I've been taking time off already. I don't think I can afford any more surprise days off. I just have to finish the day today. Link to post Share on other sites
niceguy27 Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Try to just focus on each day as it comes. Take baby steps at first. Keep telling yourself "One day at a time, one day at a time." It may help a little bit. Link to post Share on other sites
Author carrotgirl Posted September 27, 2007 Author Share Posted September 27, 2007 Sure. First this baby needs a little fire-water in her bottle. This is really not fair! I've been decent. Couldn't he do the noble thing and not take the job, go bankrupt, lose his flat, his worldly goods and fall at my feet begging for scraps? Too much to ask? Well how about he could just not take the job? Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Sure. First this baby needs a little fire-water in her bottle. This is really not fair! I've been decent. Couldn't he do the noble thing and not take the job, go bankrupt, lose his flat, his worldly goods and fall at my feet begging for scraps? Too much to ask? Well how about he could just not take the job? Ha ha ha, I know, it is the least he could do. Just sit at your throne until...you get off. You are Queen of your cubicle/office. You rule supreme in your fabulous nature. He is the court jester and can only offer you slight amusement now. When you think of him...think...Who? Don't text with him. If he approaches you just say that you are busy at the moment and that this is not a good time to talk. Get through the day sister. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 If he falls at your feet begging for scraps, give him the left-over baked potato peel. Link to post Share on other sites
Author carrotgirl Posted September 27, 2007 Author Share Posted September 27, 2007 Oh! That was so funny I giggled with glee and my ex asked "What's up?" and I was still giggling so I stopped. But that felt so good! I have to tell you. I eat the skin. The ex wouldn't even get a peeling! Carrot Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Just don't be offering him a carrot. How about a big pile of sea salt? Link to post Share on other sites
Author carrotgirl Posted September 27, 2007 Author Share Posted September 27, 2007 He stopped by on his way out to chat. Chat chat chat. Blah blah blah. He smiled and smiled and was horribly adorable. Then he said, see you tomorrow. And I said, oh, I'm not here, so, bye. And he said, oh. He's still here talking to other people. Link to post Share on other sites
Author carrotgirl Posted September 27, 2007 Author Share Posted September 27, 2007 Just don't be offering him a carrot. How about a big pile of sea salt? He doesn't deserve salt. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Wouldn't that be "oh" , instead? God you crack me up carrotgirl! Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 He doesn't deserve salt. Oh, just let him eat salt...and only salt... Link to post Share on other sites
Author carrotgirl Posted September 27, 2007 Author Share Posted September 27, 2007 Oh, just let him eat salt...and only salt... He can eat whatever the fuskc he wants to eat. He's gone. And... oh! Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Only oh? Not oh or oh or oh Link to post Share on other sites
Author carrotgirl Posted September 27, 2007 Author Share Posted September 27, 2007 oh, You can get plenty mo-oh-re ohs from me. I'm still working. He left to be alo-oh-ne. oh, I am so-oh tired. Carrot Link to post Share on other sites
Author carrotgirl Posted September 27, 2007 Author Share Posted September 27, 2007 oh, I really need a po-oh-oh-ta-to-oh. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 oh........ Link to post Share on other sites
Author carrotgirl Posted September 27, 2007 Author Share Posted September 27, 2007 On the verge of tears. Should be done here in another 30 minutes. Then the drive home. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 28, 2007 Share Posted September 28, 2007 No sad love songs. Put in some music with plenty of adrenaline. Link to post Share on other sites
Author carrotgirl Posted September 28, 2007 Author Share Posted September 28, 2007 I'm home. I have a solid few hours of work left before I can let loose and blubber. Oh-r have a drink. Oh-r enjoy a wallow with potato. I see he's on the internet. That's for me. It's nice. He's not impervious. Not impervious to Carrots. Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted September 28, 2007 Share Posted September 28, 2007 Why are you checking up on him? Come on ....BE THE CARROT. Also, you can give him salt for his wounds when he comes crying back. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 28, 2007 Share Posted September 28, 2007 *image of slug writhing in salt, crosses mind* Link to post Share on other sites
Author carrotgirl Posted September 28, 2007 Author Share Posted September 28, 2007 Oh behave. I'm on because I have to work and this is how get my work done. It would be stupid to hide just because he might see I'm working when after spending the day at my office (in addition to the past forever while we were together eh?) he already knows I'm working. He is the one behaving out of the norm. And I didn't contact him. Did I just get called a slug? Or the slug got called a slug? It was a bit vague. ;) Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 28, 2007 Share Posted September 28, 2007 You're the salt supplier, so how can you be the slug? Link to post Share on other sites
Author carrotgirl Posted September 28, 2007 Author Share Posted September 28, 2007 That's right! I say no salt. Seriously, well, as serious as I can be which isn't a lot, I think salt is wealth. Salt brings out flavour. Salt is sweat and tears. He has gotten enough salt. Link to post Share on other sites
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