Naviva Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 You're right...I was hurt...I could care less now. Its over. Who was really hurt by my wife's actions are my kids. Didn't think 2 squirts of piss about them did she? Anyway, you are wrong...when it comes to cheating, it IS easy to do the right thing. VERY easy. Only reason someone cheats is because they want to, and no amount of justifying is going to make me think otherwise(not saying you are saying that....I mean from the cheaters themselves) You're probably right. I guess lately I've been confused - a friend whom I really like and respect cheated on his wife and that screwed my perspective on things. Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 You're probably right. I guess lately I've been confused - a friend whom I really like and respect cheated on his wife and that screwed my perspective on things. Dont be swayed by the failures of others. You dont have to be that way. If your weak, aviod situations where others can exploit that weakness. You've been discussing judgement with Bish. He may not approach situations with caring and understanding, but he understands the requirement for strong judgement. See, its as he says, we all judge. Thats not a bad thing... its a good thing. It is how we make good choices. If you think cheaters are just good people who make mistakes, consider this. Good people by definition do good things, and bad people do bad things. Knowingly lying, cheating, and betraying the trust of others... is a very bad thing. Consider this when making your own choices. Link to post Share on other sites
Naviva Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Dont be swayed by the failures of others. You dont have to be that way. If your weak, aviod situations where others can exploit that weakness. You've been discussing judgement with Bish. He may not approach situations with caring and understanding, but he understands the requirement for strong judgement. See, its as he says, we all judge. Thats not a bad thing... its a good thing. It is how we make good choices. If you think cheaters are just good people who make mistakes, consider this. Good people by definition do good things, and bad people do bad things. Knowingly lying, cheating, and betraying the trust of others... is a very bad thing. Consider this when making your own choices. I can't argue with this. I myself am not confused about my own actions, just some questions have been bothering me as of late. Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 I can't argue with this. I myself am not confused about my own actions, just some questions have been bothering me as of late. What kind of questions? Link to post Share on other sites
Naviva Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 What kind of questions? If I could I'd rather PM them to you, but there is no such option. Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 If I could I'd rather PM them to you, but there is no such option. Hmm... Its that personal? The option will come available once you place 200 or so posts. That opens up an interesting problem. I will provide any and all assistance I can. Link to post Share on other sites
Naviva Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Hmm... Its that personal? The option will come available once you place 200 or so posts. That opens up an interesting problem. I will provide any and all assistance I can. thanks, I don't have a problem per se. I'm just drawn to pseudo intellectual discussions as of late. Ethics, morality, blah-blah. Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 thanks, I don't have a problem per se. I'm just drawn to pseudo intellectual discussions as of late. Ethics, morality, blah-blah. Sounds like an absolutely wonderful idea for a new thread! I say go for it! Link to post Share on other sites
Naviva Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Sounds like an absolutely wonderful idea for a new thread! I say go for it! I think I'll offend people with my ambivalence - cuz recently I have contracted the curse of seeing both sides of the story Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 I think I'll offend people with my ambivalence - cuz recently I have contracted the curse of seeing both sides of the story Let them be offended. Put up a thread that displays how your feeling and why. Some jerks will come, but there will also be some extremely insightful and intelligent discussion. Ignore the jerks and take the good perspective for what its worth! In life you will never get what you want if you are afraid to ask! Link to post Share on other sites
Naviva Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Let them be offended. Put up a thread that displays how your feeling and why. Some jerks will come, but there will also be some extremely insightful and intelligent discussion. Ignore the jerks and take the good perspective for what its worth! In life you will never get what you want if you are afraid to ask! Yup, I just need time to clearly articulate what I have in mind. It's not very clear to me, actually. Link to post Share on other sites
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