annabelle75 Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 How can any woman say their H never slept with anyone else... This is... Déjà Moo.. you know that feeling that you've heard this bull before... hahahaha NO W on this planet can say with absolute certainty that their H has never had sex with another woman... I completely agree with that. Personally I think she is just in some sort of denial and thats why she is so bitter. But if she wants to insist that her H was never emotionally attached or slept with the OW, than I'm going to refuse to let her call herself a BW. Link to post Share on other sites
Jinnah Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 How can any woman say their H never slept with anyone else... This is... Déjà Moo.. you know that feeling that you've heard this bull before... hahahaha NO W on this planet can say with absolute certainty that their H has never had sex with another woman... Unless you really have an honest man... Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Unless you really have an honest man... Okay, calling all men on LS! Many OW's say not a single ONE of you can EVER be honest or faithful. D'ya like that label? Actually, I think they place the label to make themselves feel better about their part in sleeping with married men. Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 According to IO, her H didn't even like the OW. He just enjoyed flirting with her because it boosted his ego. Doesn't sound like much of an emotional affair to me. Sounds like a married man that liked flirting with a pretty girl. Does it make him a jerk, yes! Does it make him a cheater? Not in my book. My H really did cheat on me. Strangely enough I am not even half as bitter or angry as IO is. She's got problems. LOL... you still have to give the potential OW points for trying! There is a possibility that this forum provides an opportunity to release some frustration and anger! Double that possibility if those feelings cant be expressed to the H. Link to post Share on other sites
KenzieAbsolutely Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Actually, I think they place the label to make themselves feel better about their part in sleeping with married men. gee, you think? Link to post Share on other sites
reboot Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 So if I claim that I've never cheated on my wife, either a) I'm lying or b) I've just yet to meet in real life one of these incredible hotties from LS that can seduce any man alive just curious. Link to post Share on other sites
annabelle75 Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 THIS IS RICH !!!! I LOVE IT !!!! I call out OI and you all jump on something Lizzie said and twist it around completely out of context and accuse the OWs of saying all men cheat !! Unbelievable. If you can't argue with a point you just make stuff up. Classic !!!! Link to post Share on other sites
reboot Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 I was just asking for clarification. Link to post Share on other sites
lost4ever Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Really it's no use in arguing annabelle, most of the OW are trying to say they didn't intend to fall in love with MM. and couple BS are posting that they do not believe in the concept of love, so they will never understand the arguement, they lost love along time ago, and they don't want to try to get the love back, they just want the word "commitment" to be inforced so that they can keep the spouse with minimum effort. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 So if I claim that I've never cheated on my wife, either a) I'm lying or b) I've just yet to meet in real life one of these incredible hotties from LS that can seduce any man alive just curious. I have not met any of the LS hotties but I have met women similar to them and I tell them to try it on another man because no way in hell I would risk losing my wife who is a rare gem over some women who feels the need to validate herself by seducing MM. Link to post Share on other sites
Jinnah Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 She JUST said it... have you forgotten already? How can any woman say their H never slept with anyone else... This is... Déjà Moo.. you know that feeling that you've heard this bull before... hahahaha NO W on this planet can say with absolute certainty that their H has never had sex with another woman... Of course people are going to jump on such a comment... there's no twisting the above. Link to post Share on other sites
Jinnah Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 I have not met any of the LS hotties but I have met women similar to them and I tell them to try it on another man because no way in hell I would risk losing my wife who is a rare gem over some women who feels the need to validate herself by seducing MM. Good for you, Woggle. Link to post Share on other sites
annabelle75 Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 She JUST said it... have you forgotten already? Of course people are going to jump on such an ignorant, sadistic comment... there's no twisting the above. No she didn't. Not in the context to which you are applying it. She said it in response IO saying that she knew her H did not sleep with another woman. And she did not say that all MM cheat. She said there is no way any one can know for sure that their SO hasn't cheated on them, which is true. All you can do is choose to have faith in their fidelity. You are reaching with this one. Sorry but I'm not falling for it. If you are going to get on Lizzie's case, than do it for soemthing she actually said. Link to post Share on other sites
Jinnah Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 No she didn't. Not in the context to which you are applying it. She said it in response IO saying that she knew her H did not sleep with another woman. And she did not say that all MM cheat. She said there is no way any one can know for sure that their SO hasn't cheated on them, which is true. All you can do is choose to have faith in their fidelity. You are reaching with this one. Sorry but I'm not falling for it. If you are going to get on Lizzie's case, than do it for soemthing she actually said. Well, actually, her statement is untrue. Like I said earlier, if you are with an honest man/woman, you can say for certain whether or not they have cheated on you. This is all rubbish anyway though, because the point of the thread was that an OW was saying the BS should not blame them, but as far as most people in our society agree, you can... it even says that in the dictionary for crying out loud. You OW can be in denial all you want so you don't have to feel bad about the horrendous things you are doing, but that doesn't make you right. OW should stop blaming everyone else in the world who things they are wrong. All I see is bitter OW (maybe b/c they know they are not the only one or b/c their MM won't leave his wife). The OW say the BS are bitter, but at least they are righteously bitter. Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 they lost love along time ago, and they don't want to try to get the love back, they just want the word "commitment" to be inforced so that they can keep the spouse with minimum effort. Is this how you feel about your own BS? Do you feel that your own husband lost love when you started an affair with a MM? Do you feel that your own husband doesn't want to get love back, that he only wants to trap you in a loveless marriage so that he can keep you with minimal effort? Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 No she didn't. Not in the context to which you are applying it. She said it in response IO saying that she knew her H did not sleep with another woman. And she did not say that all MM cheat. She said there is no way any one can know for sure that their SO hasn't cheated on them, which is true. All you can do is choose to have faith in their fidelity. You are reaching with this one. Sorry but I'm not falling for it. If you are going to get on Lizzie's case, than do it for soemthing she actually said. Very True! I suggest that poeple not try to read between the lines so much as... actually read the post! Link to post Share on other sites
GreenEyedLady Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 You know, all this back and forth between parties is really rather tiresome... It makes me happy that I am in a R where I am able to communicate with my partner who meets my needs and vice versa...without all the battling that plagues so many other people... I sure am lucky... Link to post Share on other sites
annabelle75 Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Well, actually, her statement is untrue. Like I said earlier, if you are with an honest man/woman, you can say for certain whether or not they have cheated on you. AAWWWWWWW !!!! :boink: Sorry. I just just fell out of my chair laughing. After this statement I can never take you seriously again. Link to post Share on other sites
Jinnah Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 You know, all this back and forth between parties is really rather tiresome... It makes me happy that I am in a R where I am able to communicate with my partner who meets my needs and vice versa...without all the battling that plagues so many other people... I sure am lucky... I wonder if most people think they are oh so lucky when their bf goes home to his wife... don't think so. Link to post Share on other sites
Impudent Oyster Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 I really don't give my wieght to what you post as a BS. Not because your posts reak of bitterness and judgement but because you have NO CLUE what an affair is. You have admitted that your husband never even slept with the woman (I hardly consider her an OW). OMG ...... your H had lunch a few times with a woman ...... now you have to troll OW message boards harrassing other women. Seems like a bit of an over reaction to me. I feel sorry for your poor H. Based on the way you treat the OWs here, I can only imagine what hell you have put him through. Do you make him walk around with a scarlet A on his chest? You might want to just forgive him, be greatful he never actually slept with another woman and move on with you life. Otherwise he might get fed up and decide to REALLY cheat on you. Get a clue. When you've been happily married for the better part of over 2 decades then you can start threatening me with your ASSumptions of what my husband will or won't do, and how I treat him. He'd laugh his a$$ off at your supposition that I'm "putting him through hell" poor baby. Men would love a wife like me. But yes, he's very sorry for what he but ME through, if you're the least bit concerned. Link to post Share on other sites
annabelle75 Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Very True! I suggest that poeple not try to read between the lines so much as... actually read the post! Thanks you handsome devil you Its kind of hot when you agree with me. Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 You know, all this back and forth between parties is really rather tiresome... It makes me happy that I am in a R where I am able to communicate with my partner who meets my needs and vice versa...without all the battling that plagues so many other people... I sure am lucky... Are you saying that you aren't a part of the bickering... or that your tired of it? I'm glad you think your lucky! Link to post Share on other sites
Jinnah Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 AAWWWWWWW !!!! :boink: Sorry. I just just fell out of my chair laughing. After this statement I can never take you seriously again. I stopped taking you seriously the second you started talking, don't worry. Not my fault you don't believe in honest people... doesn't mean they aren't out there. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 My wife can be 100% sure that I won't cheat. For all my faults one thing I am is honest. Link to post Share on other sites
annabelle75 Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 But yes, he's very sorry for what he but ME through, if you're the least bit concerned. He flirted with another woman. Get over it. I'm starting to think you are one of those people that like to play the "victim." Link to post Share on other sites
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