GreenEyedLady Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 There's no smilie here that means "dripping sarcasm" or I would have used it in that post. Ok, I thought maybe someone on ignore said it... Which I wouldn't think was very nice...or true... Link to post Share on other sites
Jinnah Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 why? you never had group sex before or something? you my dear have robbed yourself of quite the experience;) Of going to hell? Good, I'm glad then! Link to post Share on other sites
Jinnah Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Hmm which is easier... get a husband who can control himself, or try to control the billions of women on the planet..? The cheater is still 100% responsible for their own actions in cheating on their spouse. That is true whichever way you slice it or dice it, and however many come backs you stage. Oh, I agree Frannie, but it still doesn't excuse the OM/OW. Link to post Share on other sites
GreenEyedLady Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Let's not forget the spelling Bee's too, can't forget them GEL Whoa! And I thought I was on vacation! Watch out for the Spelling Gestapo! (sp?) Link to post Share on other sites
reboot Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 I'm just saying were we to trade places... I would put the boot part of reboot to good use!I always said the exact same thing. Until I was put in that position and discovered life is not always black and white. *shrug* Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 However, if he did... yeah he's 100% to blame. The questionable OW would be to blame as well b/c she shouldn't have slept with him if she knew he was married... 1)b/c she should feel bad about doing that to another woman and 2) b/c she should have more respect for herself for crying out loud! But, whatever... who cares about my old situation... I don't. Well, it makes a really good example! That OW doesnt owe you anything! You really shouldnt be placing any blame on her! Nor should you be blaming yourself! You know where the responsibility lies. Who lied to you? So you see, this goes down to the very heart of what we are discussing! You place blame on another woman... and why? That make sense to you? Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Yousaveme, lovernotafighter, gel hmmmmmmm :lmao: hey where did TF go? I thought she wanted to play with me! make a grand entry like this post and then nothing? what a waste! ...or is she waiting for me to leave so the coast is clear? Link to post Share on other sites
Jinnah Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Ok, I thought maybe someone on ignore said it... Which I wouldn't think was very nice...or true... Yes, it's always easier to ignore certain people than to *gasp* do some soul searching and admit we are wrong! Whatever. No loss to me... I actually gain some peace. Link to post Share on other sites
frannie Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Cmon, you know it is actually way easier to control billions of women on the planet! I mean we are talking about one male! What's the bigger challenge? **INSERT MAJOR SARCASM HERE!** Yeah I thought that when I'd posted it lol Link to post Share on other sites
TogetherForever Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Oh I'm here:). Research time. TF Link to post Share on other sites
Jinnah Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 I always said the exact same thing. Until I was put in that position and discovered life is not always black and white. *shrug* Good for you Reboot... don't ever let anyone make you feel bad about the the decision that suited you best. Link to post Share on other sites
lost4ever Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Is the porn industry repsonsible for the cheating if it wasn't another women? Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Of going to hell? Good, I'm glad then! going to hell?! what makes you think that? well I know thats a whole other thread but I'm serious, having sex is not a sin nor is loving people...do you really think god would have created us to do those things and then make us burn for it when love and joy hurt no one? you can't be serious! Jinnah, seriously someday I'd like to hear this, though of coarse not in a thread jack, but really I don't understand. Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 I always said the exact same thing. Until I was put in that position and discovered life is not always black and white. *shrug* I'm not making light of your situation. Do you know why you made this decision? Link to post Share on other sites
reboot Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Is the porn industry repsonsible for the cheating if it wasn't another women?Does Cinemax soft porn count? Link to post Share on other sites
lost4ever Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Or maybe it's Hewlett packards responsbilty to not make printer he can print porn with.... Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Oh I'm here:). Research time. TF well lay it on me, cause it sure took you long enough, I am just dying to hear this! Link to post Share on other sites
Jinnah Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Well, it makes a really good example! That OW doesnt owe you anything! You really shouldnt be placing any blame on her! Nor should you be blaming yourself! You know where the responsibility lies. Who lied to you? So you see, this goes down to the very heart of what we are discussing! You place blame on another woman... and why? That make sense to you? Well, b/c if I did happen to have cared at the time, I would have been really hurt/devastated... don't I deserve a little common respect? Should we as people in a society respect each other? Don't you believe in common decency and the Golden Rule? Link to post Share on other sites
Jinnah Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Good for you Reboot... don't ever let anyone make you feel bad about the the decision that suited you best. It takes a strong person to forgive... good for you. Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Or maybe it's Hewlett packards responsbilty to not make printer he can print porn with.... I got that edition *yum* Link to post Share on other sites
Jinnah Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 going to hell?! what makes you think that? well I know thats a whole other thread but I'm serious, having sex is not a sin nor is loving people...do you really think god would have created us to do those things and then make us burn for it when love and joy hurt no one? you can't be serious! Jinnah, seriously someday I'd like to hear this, though of coarse not in a thread jack, but really I don't understand. If you are a Christian, you should know the answer to that (as well as the poster w/ the porn comment... if you aren't well, good luck on that. Link to post Share on other sites
Jinnah Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Or maybe it's Hewlett packards responsbilty to not make printer he can print porn with.... Enablers are still evil... but hey, I'm a Christian... I see things differently I guess, and I'm grateful for that. ...although we don't have to be so juvenille in our examples. Link to post Share on other sites
lost4ever Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Oh yeah I forgot that part in the bible that stated if you printed porn you will burn in hell. Link to post Share on other sites
frannie Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Enablers are still evil... Which bit of the Bible is that from..? Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 If you are a Christian, you should know the answer to that (as well as the poster w/ the porn comment... if you aren't well, good luck on that. I am a christian a big one to boot, did charity and everything. do you believe conversations with god? that is what I believe if you don't then your right we won't be seeing eye to eye here Which bit of the Bible is that from..? dead sea scrolls? Link to post Share on other sites
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