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HER IS MY STORY. i MET A REALLY GREAT GUY. hE IS SENSITIVE,CARING, SWEET, AND HARD WORKING. hERES THE PROBLEM.......aBOUT 6 MONTHS AGO HE WAS DATING A GIRL FOR ABOUT 2 MTS. SHE TOLD HIM SHE LOVED HIM AND TOLD HM HE MADE HER FEEL 10 FT. TALL WHEN SHE WAS WITH HIM, AND THEN OUT OF THE BLUE SHE TELLS HIM HE IS TOO NICE AND DUMPS HIM. THERE WERE ALSO OTHER GUYS CALLING HER. IT ALL REALLY MESSED WITH HIS HEAD. THAT WAS 6 MTS AGO. hE TALKS LIKE HE WANTS A REALATIONSHIP WITH ME BUT AT THE SAME TIME HE IS SCARED, BUT HE ALSO SAID THAT IF SHE CALLED HE WOULD GO BACK TO HER. HE SAYS HE DOESNT LOVE HER JUST REALLY LIKED HER ALOT. I WOULD LIKE TO PERSUE THIS BUT DON'T KNOW IF I SHOULD, I AM AFRAID I WILL RUN HIM OFF. HOW CAN I SHOW HIM THAT I REALLY LIKE HIM AND WANT MORE WITHOUT RUNNING HIM OFF. I WATCH WHAT I SAY AROUND HIM BUECAUSE OF THIS. :confused::confused::confused:

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This doesn't sound too good. This caught my attention:

"HE ALSO SAID THAT IF SHE CALLED HE WOULD GO BACK TO HER"

 

There's no way you can have a relationship with someone who openly prefers someone else over you.

 

I think you're best off dropping this guy & looking for someone with an available heart.

 

-yes

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Just be friends with him and see other people. He's still stuck on this other girl....mostly in his head. He needs time to get over her. It's not likely she'll return to him because he was too nice and offered her little challenge.

 

If you eventually start dating him, it's not likely he will be very exciting to you either. He likes what he can't have...one of those guys who chases his tail for many years. He's only too nice to ladies he has to work hard for and who don't really want him.

 

Tell him you don't want much to do with him either and watch how he comes after you. Guys like that are just like dogs who chase cars. They love chasing cars but have NO idea what to do when they actually catch up to them.

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"HE ALSO SAID THAT IF SHE CALLED HE WOULD GO BACK TO HER"

 

I totally agree with Yes with this statement. I would say see ya later alligator until that changes. The only person who's gonna be left in the dust is you.

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