reve Posted April 23, 2003 Share Posted April 23, 2003 I got to know this girl at my workplace for about 2 months and i think she is a nice down to earth kind of person. We are on good terms and can talk quite a bit about everything under the sun but the thing is i like her a lot but do not have the courage or knowledge to go about going after her. How do i even get her phone number without making a fool of myself? And after that how do i go about dating her? I have never gone after girls before and this is my first time since usually its the girls that make the first move towards me....... Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted April 23, 2003 Share Posted April 23, 2003 just ask for her number next time you're saying bye... if she gives it, that's your first good sign! then, call her & invite her out for lunch, or whatever else you can think of. Just remember to make her feel good, and not brag about the great yourself all the time =) good luck, -yes Link to post Share on other sites
steffany Posted April 23, 2003 Share Posted April 23, 2003 Oh please make a move! My ex and I were in the same boat but I finally asked him out. I still wish he would have done it. What ever you do don't get all shy or wait for her to make every move...like my ex. Just do what you feel. Follow your intuitions and heart. If you want to ask her out...Ask her! Chances are if she is a cool girl like you say and she is single....you aren't the only one who has noticed. Bite the bullet and ask her to lunch today or like Yes said get her number after work! Don't be a pansey and sit and twiddle your thumbs on this one. Link to post Share on other sites
Author reve Posted April 24, 2003 Author Share Posted April 24, 2003 How do i know or tell if she's interested in me or we are just only friends or collegues? Sometimes she's very warm and caring towards me and sometimes when she looks down and i ask her whats wrong she brushes me aside all the time Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted April 24, 2003 Share Posted April 24, 2003 you can only know if you start pursuing her & watching her reaction. -yes Link to post Share on other sites
Author reve Posted April 24, 2003 Author Share Posted April 24, 2003 Like what kind of rection for an example....i'm a complete idiot to such things and need some guidence on what reponses should i be looking out for.....afraid that she may have gave me some reponse but i failed to see it clearly.. Link to post Share on other sites
stepwater Posted April 30, 2003 Share Posted April 30, 2003 If you want to be subtle stop by her cube/office/stable..j/k whatever the case may be and tell her your going to grab lunch and see if she wants to go with you. After a couple days do it a again. After a week or so tell her that your going out with some friends on a weekend and invite her to go along. Once you are out on the town you should be able to figure out pretty quickly if your relationship is going anywhere. Keeping it subtle and laidback avoids any possible embarrassment on either side. Link to post Share on other sites
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