magicinyou Posted October 8, 2007 Share Posted October 8, 2007 hey guys! what if a couple of 2 years broke up, and after 5 months or so, the guy sometimes calls the girl often like everyday for a week but can "dissappear" after that and call her again like unexpectedly. usually when they chat, the guy would be like teasing her or just chatting. so does it indicate anything? like does he still have feelings for her?just pure chatting? worse, playing with her feelings? FYI: it was the guy who broke up with her, stating that his feelings sorta changed (more of like friends than a couple). it has always been the guy who took the initiative to call her after they broke up. and till now, the girl still loves him. Link to post Share on other sites
CJ77 Posted October 9, 2007 Share Posted October 9, 2007 hmmmmm sounds to me that he is still thinking of you, and probably missing you. I doubt its a head game. sounds like he isnt totally sure what he wants. it could be that hes feeling lonely and hes coming back to lean on you and feel you out. I say since there are too many possibilities that you come right out and ask him if hes missed you and see what happens from there. Link to post Share on other sites
LoveLace Posted October 9, 2007 Share Posted October 9, 2007 Yes he probably misses you somewhat; it's just hard to tell if he misses you as a "friend" or girlfriend. He's going in and pulling back like a rubber band just like guys do...he probably doesn't want to string you along in any way, knowing he isn't sure of his own feelings. Next time a conversation allows it, just ask...it's the only way to really know. "Do you call me because you miss me, or because you just want someone to talk to?"....let him know its ok (if in fact it is) that he calls, you just want to make feelings and intentions clear. Link to post Share on other sites
Author magicinyou Posted October 10, 2007 Author Share Posted October 10, 2007 icic. thanks guys for ur advise! i will try asking him the next time he calls. but i was just thinking, he might not come upright and say "yeah, i called you becos i missed you" if that was his initial intention. he could just reply in another way.. say "no? i'm just calling up for a chat" which isnt the case. man.., they always say girls are difficult to read. guys too man! ahha Link to post Share on other sites
matwithonet Posted October 10, 2007 Share Posted October 10, 2007 I'm not high jacking your thread or anything, but is it the same if the genders are reversed? Like if the girl broke up with the guy, and is now calling him all the time. Link to post Share on other sites
Author magicinyou Posted October 10, 2007 Author Share Posted October 10, 2007 hmm... well, i think in my opinion it might mean the same thing? Link to post Share on other sites
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