lost66 Posted October 9, 2007 Share Posted October 9, 2007 Ok, short version i guess. My girlfriend of 4 years, living with for 3 got cold feet 6 weeks before the wedding. 2 days after I met a woman at a buddy's wedding. We started dating, she is great - beautiful, smart, etc., etc. but she is in the middle of a divorce, has 2 kids and her husband is an idiot. I have never been married and have no kids. Our relationship has gone very quickly with her staying at my house when she doesn't have the kids. Lately though, her husband has not been very helpful with the kids, the divorce has gotten "ugly", and she has been stressing hard. Recently she told me that she will now have less time for me because of her work schedule, kids, and current situation. I understand and I am trying to lay off by not calling her but its hard. I then start to think that maybe she is not for me and now I am back to where I started 4 years ago...single. All of my friends are now married and most of all of them have kids. I have a very successful career but no family. The woman that I was engaged to was 7 years younger than me. I am scared to date anyone that younger again. But, anyone older seems to have already been married, had kids etc. PLEASE give me some feedback. Link to post Share on other sites
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