salvador2413 Posted October 10, 2007 Share Posted October 10, 2007 well i there is this girl that i know that goes with me to church. i really like her and i know she likes me but the problem is the first time she flirted with me i kind of like rejected her by like not looking at her and not talking alot. so now i wanna sart talking to her and i know wat to say but i cant get rid of the butterfly feeling in your stomach. plz help me with this. Link to post Share on other sites
BrandonBlues Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 Well, if you're sure she likes you too then there really isn't all that much to be nervous about. Reason being is that you know what her response will be if you were to, let's say, ask her out to a movie or something. But if the butterflies are really that bad, what you need is a buffer to help you out. By that I mean, you two must have some mutual friends being in the same church and all. So, next time you see one of these mutual friends of yours talking to her, join the group. Say hello to her and talk to her a bit - casual like. This way it doesn't look too obvious since your friend is there too and the attention will be divided b/w her and your friend - this may help with the nervousness. If that's still too much for you, just say hi and let the other friend talk a bit until you summon up a little courage. Once you feel more comfortable, you can take her to the side and say whatever it is you want to tell her. Link to post Share on other sites
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