EnigmaXOXO Posted May 6, 2003 Share Posted May 6, 2003 Oh, come on! You just KNOW she's going to that concert with you! She's just "sweating" you a bit. Her new "committed relationship" will be over and done with by then, anyhow. After all, a "week" seems to be her current record! (tongue in cheek) If not, you could always try selling them back to her and Mr. Stan...or is it "Jeff" now?? Can't keep track!! So glad you are getting out there and meeting other ladies. Enjoying your freedom and having a good time can be great medicine. And let us know how it goes with that cute little blond your friend wants to introduce you to! Ever ask if she liked Rick Springfield?? Link to post Share on other sites
Author SeekingRealLove Posted May 7, 2003 Author Share Posted May 7, 2003 My "friend" called today and left a message that she wasn't going to attend the concert. She said Stan didn't feel confortable with the situation (which he shouldn't). She said she wanted to keep in touch and be friends, but I don't feel like working on any relationship with her at this point. I decided not to have any more communication with her. I deleted her phone number from my cell phone. This will be my last post concerning her. Seeking Link to post Share on other sites
Author SeekingRealLove Posted May 9, 2003 Author Share Posted May 9, 2003 Guess what --- she sent me an email today and I answered back. I told her about some of the dates I was setting up. I also asked her what I could do with my boys this weekend. She called me about an hour later! She wanted to know if we could get together with the children (she has three - 5, 7, 9) while I have two (4 & 5). She suggested dinner (pizza) and a movie (Daddy Day Care). Of course I said yes because I was excited to her from her and spend time together. She was also asked about going to church on Sunday and then going to the pool. I didn't give an answer on that yet. Just when I thought I wasn't going talk to her any more, she calls me! The worst part is I can't say no to her. I want to see how she treats her kids and she probably wants to see the same from me. Someone said I would be traveling a bumpy road with this lady and they were right! I have no idea where this road is leading to! I already asked another lady to the concert next Saturday so I don't have to bug her about it. I'm so confused at this point. Part of me wants to break ties with this lady, the other part wants to build our relationship. What happens if we have a great time together with the children? I'm afraid that will bond us closer together. I don't want to be disappointed or hurt by her. Anyone have any opinions on what I should do? Link to post Share on other sites
EnigmaXOXO Posted May 9, 2003 Share Posted May 9, 2003 ...Told ya. Like I said, you've got this lady "hooked," but be careful as it seems she's still pretty good at playing with your head. So what happened to Stan? Old news already?? Oh well, far be it from me to pry, but I just don't see why you have to choose between one lady or the other yet. Why not go on BOTH dates?? It wouldn't be fair to the other woman for you to cancel at this point just because "the one who can't make up her mind" decides to come back into the picture. Don't let anyone "play" you like that. Take your time, and enjoy the ride one day at a time. You're in the driver's seat now. But be sure to buckle up those d*mn seat belts!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author SeekingRealLove Posted May 9, 2003 Author Share Posted May 9, 2003 I think we are both "hooked" to each other and neither one of us wants to admit it to the other. I didn't ask what happened to Stan, but I don't know how she could explain what she was doing if she was still going out with him "exclusively". I'm still going on the other dates. Dinner with one lady on Monday, and the Saturday concert with the other lady. Both seem nice, but neither sparks my interest like my "original" lady. The bumpy road that my lead to nowhere is the coarse I'm taking for now. I always did like amusement park rides --- especially the rollercoaster! Link to post Share on other sites
Author SeekingRealLove Posted May 11, 2003 Author Share Posted May 11, 2003 Quick update --- I met her at her house today with my two boys and her three kids. We all went out for dinner and to a movie (Daddy Daycare). I had a great time and my children enjoyed themselves with her kids. She was hugging my 4 year old when he was misbehavoring and that seemed to calm him down, but it made me feel weird about it. I'm afraid either her or my children would get attached. Oh---by the way---she told me she had a fight with the guy she was dating. I still don't know where this relationship is going, but I'm enjoying the ride for now. Link to post Share on other sites
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