Antha Posted December 15, 2007 Share Posted December 15, 2007 Well, its great to hear that you and your family are doing so well. I posted a thread about the immature ex-husband if you wants to know how things go. Keep up the good work ilmw. Keep appreciating what you've got, how far you've come, the man you came to be. I'm happy for all of you -- you, your dw, ss, ds. This is just great! Link to post Share on other sites
Author ilmw Posted December 15, 2007 Author Share Posted December 15, 2007 Well, its great to hear that you and your family are doing so well. I posted a thread about the immature ex-husband if you wants to know how things go. Keep up the good work ilmw. Keep appreciating what you've got, how far you've come, the man you came to be. I'm happy for all of you -- you, your dw, ss, ds. This is just great! Hey Antha:) Yeah... I replied to your prior post... and then noticed your own new thread..:p Nice... fun and games:mad: I do believe that I had mentioned in your original thread... that your ex... sounds like the spitting image of my S/son's father... He to played games for years.. and paid his child support once and awhile... when it seemed like he fealt like it... he was even given the option to let me adopt my s/son... so he could get out of the payments... but.. Nope.. he wanted the games.. Now that clown in behind in payments for several years.. and the government... is after him... so to speak. Income tax... his driving licence...etc. Still.... I don't think he has worked over the table... in probably 9-10 years? Anyway.. I could go on and on... about that knob... but where would that get us eh? All you can do with that clown is grin and bare it... and do what you have to do... you can't change him... you can only be better than him. My Dw did this... and now.. over time, after several years of my S/son blaming her.. and giving us both attitude after coming back from his father's place... where ever it was that week He now.. has no interest in his father... and finally sees him for what he is... a waist of oxygen.. and hardly someone to aspire to be. ilmw Link to post Share on other sites
Author ilmw Posted December 26, 2007 Author Share Posted December 26, 2007 Merry Christmas everyone! This may be the worst christmas ever for you! But it is still Christmas. It will be better next year. I just wanted to thank so many of you for being there when I needed a shoulder to cry on.. some one to whine to... some one to knocked me up side the head (Gunny) as well....LJ, Dgiirl, PW, CC, are but a few.. whose insight, and wisdom.. helped me through. Once again.. thank you all.. you all each gave me a piece to my puzzle, and it is almost done.. MERRY CHRISTMAS! ilmw Link to post Share on other sites
polywog Posted December 26, 2007 Share Posted December 26, 2007 OMG, I just caught up with your thread after a while away from it, and it makes me so happy:bunny:! Not just that you're marriage is back on track, but that it's just so cool to watch someone actually grow and heal from all this turmoil. You were one of the first people to post on my sad threads when I came here almost a year ago, and I've never forgotten that, and I learned a lot from reading your threads.... it really helped me, even if I didn't always post on them. I'm just so happy and grateful to see this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ilmw Posted January 9, 2008 Author Share Posted January 9, 2008 OMG, I just caught up with your thread after a while away from it, and it makes me so happy:bunny:! Not just that you're marriage is back on track, but that it's just so cool to watch someone actually grow and heal from all this turmoil. You were one of the first people to post on my sad threads when I came here almost a year ago, and I've never forgotten that, and I learned a lot from reading your threads.... it really helped me, even if I didn't always post on them. I'm just so happy and grateful to see this. Hey polywog... good to hear from you! and.. thank you! Happy New Year!! The year so far has been busy... moved in with DW and the boys.. Officially as of Jan 01/08.. Kids are happy... I am happy.. family is happy... and DW is happy! To think not that many months ago... I was looking a divorce.. and rebuilding my life. This time last year was brutal for me..... but I pulled myself together.... and carried on.. faked it until I made it! The lessons I have learned from all of this... will not be forgotten... I took the opportunity to figure out what the hell went wrong... what I did... what DW did.... and swore... I would never go through this again... well not to be a part of the problem.. but part of the solution. This is also another reason I still come on LS... mainly to SD to read others posts.. and remind myself... I was there... don't want to go back! I can honestly say... I learned a lesson... Take care all... be strong... you will get through this:) ilmw Link to post Share on other sites
s_n_d Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 Congrats, ilmw!!!!! I wish you all the best for the future! Link to post Share on other sites
br0ken_w0lf Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 ILMW, I can't tell you how happy I am that things have worked out for you! I found your original thread shortly after I joined and read all of it. Got to the end of it and... what happened? Then found this one As I would read, my emotions would go up and down with yours; the little stories about your son would put a smile on my face and the setbacks you experienced put tears in my eyes. I kept thinking, "this has to work out! this guy has worked too hard and he deserves it!!" And now to see that you've moved back in as well! Man, this is like a feel-good movie x 100! You're an inspiration to me and, I know, many others on here - you figured out what you needed to do, you did it, all the while being a fantastic parent to your kids - and, in the end, things are working. I wish you all the best in the future and, again, thanks for taking the time (so much time) to post - it really helps everyone! Link to post Share on other sites
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