artistinlove20 Posted October 12, 2007 Share Posted October 12, 2007 This fall I started college and I really like one of my instructors. But the thing is.. its a girl.. and I am a girl. Ive never EVERRR had lesbian thoughts before.. ever in my life. (im 20). Ive had a boyfriend for 8 months and I was head of heals in love with him until i came here and met my instructor. She is amazing and I really want to get to know her more! I think she is single. But she is A LOT older then me. I think she is in her late 40's. && a 13 year old daughter. But I heard she is single. She strikes me as the type that could be Bi. But I am not sure. She smiles at me allllllllllll the time and she loves my art work.. so I know she notices me. How do I start up a relationship with her? I really wanna be close with her. I dont HAVE to be her "partner". but for some reason I really want us to be close. She is just amazing and she makes me wanna do push harder for my goals. I think about her alll the time. Am I crazy?? Ive never felt this way before. I know the feelings I feel is sincere. Ive even gone on a break from my boyfriend bc my feelings for my instructor are so strong that its not fair for me to be with my boyfriend and not be 100% into him. (I could never tell him that I like my instructor..) can anyone make sense of this or help? Im so lost. what do I do? Link to post Share on other sites
melodymatters Posted October 12, 2007 Share Posted October 12, 2007 You might just have a "girl crush" and be very impressed with this woman without being in love with her, or actually wanting anything sexual. Why don't you just approach her as a friend and mentor, telling her she is somone you admire and would like her guidence and friendship if she has the time. THEN, if it seems to be a sexual/romatic/love thing, cross that bridge when you come to it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author artistinlove20 Posted October 12, 2007 Author Share Posted October 12, 2007 how do i go about telling her that? I cant take her aside and be like I wanna get to know you more. I try making small side conversations with her.. but they only last a min or so. Link to post Share on other sites
Pentula77 Posted October 17, 2007 Share Posted October 17, 2007 ask her out for a cup of coffee sometime...she could be feeling the same way. Only one way to find out. Link to post Share on other sites
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