dillpickle Posted October 12, 2007 Share Posted October 12, 2007 My boyfriend and I are totally in love. We have been digustingly gushy and overly happy until yesterday. I found out, inadvertently, from a friend, about my boyfriend's recent sexual past and his sex life while we were in an open relationship while I was gone for a few months (before we were dating seriously). Once I knew a little bit, I had to know the details, and now I am devastated and repelled by him. I can't handle the fact that he hooked up with some girls that are in our grad school class, I am disgusted by the fact that he took random girls home to (now) our bed, and I can't stop thinking about the other girls. I am having trouble being attracted to him and it is interfering with our sexual relationship. How can I get over this? Thank you J" Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted October 12, 2007 Share Posted October 12, 2007 Do you want to get over that? You stated that it was an open relationship... was that talked about? Link to post Share on other sites
DarlingDoll Posted October 15, 2007 Share Posted October 15, 2007 Wow.. talk about a lack of respect. To have sex with women that were in your grade? Hmmm. I hope he washed the sheets afterwards. In an open relationship, certain boundaries and rules should be discoursed. Otherwise, this is the pain that follows. Link to post Share on other sites
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