girl troubles

[xxdkahxx]

Hi first off id like to say im sorry for having such a long post.

 

So i went someone about 6 months ago. I met her in my math class. we didn't start talking a lot till summer. I asked her to the movies she said she couldn't go. Then for the next few weeks i was busy, and then she invited me to join her and her family on 4th July at the park i went i enjoyed her, we had a lot in common. Well then school starts again i loose communication with her for about a month or so, then at school she invites to join her group for a project we were doing in language arts, and we started conversing again. For the last few weeks we talk, laugh, and have a good time. And i asked her if she wanted a ride home 1 day after school and i took her home. But she has had a boyfriend since the beginning of school (the era of us not talking) so to make a long story short i tell her i was going out to the mall with a few friends and asked if she wanted to come along. she said 'sure' and i told her to call me on Saturday (today) to make sure she could still go. Well i had to call her and ask her and she said she couldn't.

 

My question is since she has a boyfriend should i keep my distance and stay as 'friends' and see if there is something in the future for us.

 

or

 

try for another date.

 

any advice is great. thanks

 

P.S: Im 16 she is 15 if it matters.

[Tony T]

Don't do either. Just move on with your life. Trying to be friends with somebody you want more from can be hell. It's also wrong to ask her for a date if she's seeing somebody. For now, just don't call her or associate with her. If you see her at school or elsewhere, just smile, say hello and keep on moving.

 

Go find some nice lady who's not seeing anybody and go for it. There are lots of girls out there for you if only you look.

[Sean0775]

Waiting for someone to be single is a terrible idea and will most likely have you moping about it over a bottle of liquor or looking back asking why you did it 5 years from now. Forget her, find someone else, and if she's single in a month, go ahead and give it a shot with her. If you try to stay friends with her, chances are you'll end up overstepping your bounds and ruining that friendship. I did the same thing with a female friend of mine and our friendship never truly recovered, though my situation was worse since her boyfriend is a friend of mine (I was friends with both before they were dating, but that doesn't make it any better). The sad part is, I still occasionally have thoughts about her, and I probably always will until I find the right girl. Don't put yourself through that, just let it go.