Two rules

[luveno]

1. Never ask girls for advice on how to get girls:

 

Do girls date girls? Not usually. Therefore, they do not have the experience and wisdom to tell you what is required for successful dating.

 

In response to this, girls will say "No, that's not true. We know what we want." This is too simple. Metaphorically, a sick person knows they want to get better, but they do not have the experience or wisdom to do it themselves. Similar just a bit?

 

If you want to be successful at dating, ask and observe men who are successful at dating.

 

2. Never lower your standards:

 

 

Pride is important. Without pride, things would be "good enough", but not "great". If you are a guy who thinks that he'll never get the girl he wants so you settle for someone who is way below your league, then you're being a fool. If you want a hot girl, you figure out how to get one. Never give up.

[Sean0775]

Preach it, brother.

[halfarock]

1. Never ask girls for advice on how to get girls:

 

Do girls date girls? Not usually. Therefore, they do not have the experience and wisdom to tell you what is required for successful dating.

 

In response to this, girls will say "No, that's not true. We know what we want." This is too simple. Metaphorically, a sick person knows they want to get better, but they do not have the experience or wisdom to do it themselves. Similar just a bit?

 

If you want to be successful at dating, ask and observe men who are successful at dating.

 

You’ve been drinking the Kool-Aid, haven’t you?

 

I’m sure, 100% sure that I’ve gotten better advice from women than men when it comes to women. I hang out with women all the time, much more than with men. It’s given me intimate knowledge into what women like and what turns them off.

 

I don’t know how many times I’ve heard guys going if you do x,y,z the women will love it, then later on hearing women complaining about the guys who do x,y,z.

 

So, here is some advice from a man who is good with women. If you want to understand women, hang out with women. If you have problems talking to women, you’ll only get better by talking to women. If you use the tricks of guys who pick-up lots of women, you won’t be getting women with whom to form lasting relationships.

[Road Rage]

Any port will do in a storm:laugh:

[Phateless]

my two rules are

 

women are crazy

women are evil

[luveno]

You’ve been drinking the Kool-Aid, haven’t you?

 

I’m sure, 100% sure that I’ve gotten better advice from women than men when it comes to women. I hang out with women all the time, much more than with men. It’s given me intimate knowledge into what women like and what turns them off.

 

I don’t know how many times I’ve heard guys going if you do x,y,z the women will love it, then later on hearing women complaining about the guys who do x,y,z.

 

So, here is some advice from a man who is good with women. If you want to understand women, hang out with women. If you have problems talking to women, you’ll only get better by talking to women. If you use the tricks of guys who pick-up lots of women, you won’t be getting women with whom to form lasting relationships.

 

 

Kool-Aid? Was that supposed to be an insult?

 

You say you're good with women, but in which way? There is quite a difference between being able to date any woman you choose for as long as you like, and being strung about by one woman calling it a "lasting relationship".

 

Additionally, how good you are with women depends on your age, and how many women you have been intimate with, as well as how attractive these women are. No matter how you hack it, nobody is impressed by a man who is dating a fatty, whether its for one-night or ten years; it actually decreases a man's probability in getting a better girl.

 

As one of those men who use the "tricks" to "pick-up lots of women", I can sure tell you that having a wide variety of options is advantageous in the world of dating. It increases your standards and thus lowers your threshold for putting up with a woman's transgressions, such as drama and sloth. In essence, why would you stick around a problem woman when you know you can get a better one whenever you feel like it?

 

Sure the women complain about x,y,z. But since I don't even know what x,y,z is, I can't really comment. My earlier paragraph quite deftly compared a woman talking about what turns her on to a sick person talking about a cure: they know what they want in the end result, but nothing about the steps in between. Hence talking to women about dating advice is a dead end street. I'm sure x,y,z work just fine in the hands of a man who has his wits about him.

 

 

I've read around this site and have seen all of these confused young men who are scared witless when it comes to women. I was once in that position, but then I actually found out how to operate. I'm concerned because the majority of this website preaches mental castration, rather than male independence. A man does not need a woman to live. He wants one, or many, to improve his life.