Problems with my girl...

[johnnyp]

I dated this girl for a year and eight months. She is now 20 and a half. In feb she became friends with this girl and everything seemed to change then. She seemed to stay out a lot later and hide a lot more from me. Then I found out she started reading all my emails, myspace, facebook and bank account. Then about 3 weeks ago friends by me told me that she text messaged a ex while we were having a fight, and he told everyone that she texted him to come down to her school and have sex... I went down to take care of her when she was really ill. Then I asked her about it she denied it, said she invited him down to drink for his bday.. Then I read the only text that was left and it said "see i told you to come down while i was so ****ty yesterday to have fun" That hurt me to read that.. So she was suppose to come home for a wedding a week later.. She told me all the sudden she couldnt and had to go watch a frat softball game because her soroity wouldnt let her out to come home. It was over way before the wedding and had plenty time to make it home.. she still didnt come home for it... So I was angry with what happened with the text messaging and then the wedding.. After I came home from wedding I called her, she was so mean to me and said it was because she was out of beer and didnt knwo what was going on.. she stayed out till six that morning... that same night i figured i would let her feel what i felt.. So I myspace messaged a girl 10 hours away from me and said i would take her on a date and maybe kiss her at the end of the night. She read it, because that what she did all the time read my stuff and I knew it.. So gave her something to read. She flipped out, then 2 and a half hours she and her ex started talking, he ended up coming over... I didnt know of this till I read it 2 days ago.. Ill get to that later... So she came home this weekend. We went out to a movie friday night... It went good.. Then on saturday I took her out to this romantic and nice dinner... We had a great time and went back to her place and went into the hot tub and had sex... Then we went back to her room and on her computer this ex imed her( he also has a gf) and she hide it, didnt think i seen it. I was like you and your ex talk much now?? She was like no hardly ever.. I was like hmm... So after that i was on the computer on the chair while she was sleeping looking at nascar.com.. she woke up and was like what are you doing? i was like looking at nascar.com see.. She was like oh well do that over here.. I was hmm something is wrong.. So after she fell back to sleep again.. I was like what is she hiding and why do i think it has to do with her one ex.. So i looked at her aim logs and boy i wish i didnt. I found out he came over that night and they had sex thats what the logs said.. but when i asked her she said they didnt.. they were joking around in that log.. he came over and they were going to have sex, but then when he was going down on her for like two seconds she said she didnt want to anymore.. I dont know if i should believe what she says or what I read... So she threw me out, then at 6 in the morning she text me and said I ruined us and made her more sick than she was.. we actually had a worth while convo and got things out that should have been out months ago... So the next day we hung out and talked a little more.. then i came over that night and sleep next to her... Then all day today we hung out and talked alittle more.. Keep asking if she wanted me.. She was like I dont know... I said do you still love me, she said I dont know... This is a common answer she always gives though, everything is i don tknow for everything ever... So I dont know whats going... Any suggestions?

[norajane]

She sounds like she has a drinking problem, an ex problem, a sex problem, and a lying problem.

 

So why do you want her..??

 

She's still having sex with her ex and lying about it. What more do you need to know?