Author serendip Posted November 6, 2007 Author Share Posted November 6, 2007 The ex-girlfriend text me again. I really don't understand why she would bother texting me this 6 days later. She's the one who contacted me...I responded and 6 days later she responds with this... Please stop making me feel guilty when I apologize. Just forget about it. I don't want to hear from yu anymore if it is just going to be negative We weren't contacting each other anymore. It's like she wants to continue contact by stringing me along every week or so. Why does she bother saying she doesn't want to hear from me anymore if it's going to be negative...I didn't contact her after she said it's best to forgive each other and move on....so there was no need for her to say that. It was closure for me. Link to post Share on other sites
birdie Posted November 6, 2007 Share Posted November 6, 2007 it's because her feelings move up and down as well. so she is ok when she hears from you then it starts playing on her mind and by day 5 she has worked herself up and on day 6 she texts you. eventually it will calm down, if one of you stops contact completely then it will be quicker to get over it Link to post Share on other sites
funkybassplayer Posted November 6, 2007 Share Posted November 6, 2007 She may be wanting to offer a line of communication without loosing face, or she just wants to string you along with head games. I would cut the chase and call her, ask her what is it she wants. If you dont feel that you can be true frineds at this time (cos it sounds like thats what she maybe wante) then i would tell her, and go no contact until you can be. I dont think shes offering another chance at the relationship, but it sounds like just maybe she may want to be a friend, but she may also want you around to support her untill shes better and finds a new man. Eighter way you know her and her ways. If its over, its always better to be n/c for a while until your emotions settle. Link to post Share on other sites
Author serendip Posted November 6, 2007 Author Share Posted November 6, 2007 I don't know what she wants...I mean it's over I don't understand why she's telling me 6 days later that she doesn't want to hear from me anymore...I mean it's not like I contacted her Link to post Share on other sites
funkybassplayer Posted November 6, 2007 Share Posted November 6, 2007 I don't know what she wants...I mean it's over I don't understand why she's telling me 6 days later that she doesn't want to hear from me anymore...I mean it's not like I contacted her My advice just move on, you have both said what needs to be said, look after you now. Link to post Share on other sites
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