loveydovey82 Posted October 16, 2007 Share Posted October 16, 2007 This guy and I have been dating for about three months. We started out as FWB and then I guess some feelings grew so we tried to be monogamous with each other...I failed horribly. Anyways, to make a long story short...There was some drama with us and our friends (we are all 25-30) so I just thought it would be best to break it off. We agreed that it was best and he added to it and said that we got too serious too fast. I agreed about this too. It has been about a week since we mutually decided that we were no longer seeing each other. We see each other out at the bar and what not because we have mutual friends. We talk a little and just chit chat. He talks about our relationship and mentions that he never wanted to hurt me. He also says that he likes me way too much to put me through what he has put other gfs through. (((sounds like a cop-out to me))) My best guy friend is gay and he is always grabbing my boobies...I really don't care. My ex says, "Hey! Watch it! I might have to punch you..." (((that isn't his job))) Later I'm at home...right now and he texts me a few times and says... "We were on a path towards love and I cant ruin that after the fact. Can't we start from before we started the commitment?" (((wtf does that mean?))) I told him no b/c I care for him as a friend. He blatantly came out and said "I want you back babe." I told him that I didn't want to be his fwb anymore and he said that I never was JUST that. Does this boy still have issues? I don't know if he is just getting over it all, or he really does have feelings for me. In either case I need to have a talk with him but the idea that he really does care for me freaks me out a little. I feel like he might just be afraid of love, but I can't offer him that at the risk of multiple friendships failing. I mean he is almost 30. He acts like a junior high student. Any insight on this f'ed up situation???? Link to post Share on other sites
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